blind_one
Master Don Juan
Oh my god, how did that happen? I mean wtfSolomon said:I went from that to being foreveralone
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Field Report (FR): Friday night fishing with Solomon = E
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Solomon, everyone goes through periods of solitude. Use it as a time to reflect, then get back out there being social after you have used that down time to grow.
Also, you are four years older. You might not have the same drive to be butterflying around the room like that anymore. Nothing wrong with slowing down a bit. Quality over quantity, my friend.
Also, you are four years older. You might not have the same drive to be butterflying around the room like that anymore. Nothing wrong with slowing down a bit. Quality over quantity, my friend.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Come on Solo. Once a Jedi, always a Jedi. The most amazing thing in the world is to have it all, lose it, AND THEN get it all back again!
Why?
Anyone can conquer the world, only few can conquer defeat.
Why?
Anyone can conquer the world, only few can conquer defeat.