Field Report: Date With a Lebanese Feminist

[Zimbabwe]

So I met this Lebanese girl from instagram, she was attractive and we had similar interests so I followed her. We got to chatting for about 1.5 weeks and she agreed to meetup for a date.

We initially met up for lunch for which I insisted on paying but she was adamant about us splitting the bill. This is where I joked with her and asked if she was a "feminist" to which she replied with "of course".

Her body language during the date was very positive and we did makeout. However it was obvious that she was liberal in a lot of her views, her parents are also divorced as well as the fact that she goes clubbing to "relax" which is a bit of a red flag. She also has some small tattoos on her body.

I felt like I expected her to be at least somewhat traditional and conservative because of her Lebanese Christian background (she did mention going to church every week). I've noticed that I project a lot of unrealistic expectations onto what I want from women, I fall in love with the idea of what they could be and not who they are.

At the end of the date she told me to text her when I get home, I felt like she was trying to gain control or something with that statement but I might just be overthrowing it.

 

[member160292]

You're a good baitcaster. Get into fishing, bro.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Have you texted her yet? Don't tell her that you're home, just say what's up

 

[corrector]

Text her that you got home. It worked with me in the past and its a good sign she asked that.

 

[evan12]

Lebanese women are very out going and strong , the traditional image of eastern girl will not be fit for them , I bet she also have shisha on the weekends .

 

[SW15]

@Zimbabwe -- You might be positioned to set up a 2nd date bang. That's good. Enjoy the decline! Pillage what you can.

 

[Plinco]

So I met this Lebanese girl from instagram, she was attractive and we had similar interests so I followed her. We got to chatting for about 1.5 weeks and she agreed to meetup for a date.

We initially met up for lunch for which I insisted on paying but she was adamant about us splitting the bill. This is where I joked with her and asked if she was a "feminist" to which she replied with "of course".

Her body language during the date was very positive and we did makeout. However it was obvious that she was liberal in a lot of her views, her parents are also divorced as well as the fact that she goes clubbing to "relax" which is a bit of a red flag. She also has some small tattoos on her body.

I felt like I expected her to be at least somewhat traditional and conservative because of her Lebanese Christian background (she did mention going to church every week). I've noticed that I project a lot of unrealistic expectations onto what I want from women, I fall in love with the idea of what they could be and not who they are.

At the end of the date she told me to text her when I get home, I felt like she was trying to gain control or something with that statement but I might just be overthrowing it.

Don't lower your standards just because she might be a lay. Remember, respect is more valuable than sex.

 

[devilkingx2]

I've heard that Lebanon is less conservative than other arab/Muslim/middle east countries. (Which is a good thing because I've heard that countries like Morocco make it illegal to have premarital sex)

I went on a date recently with an Egyptian Christian tourist and she was pretty similar to an American party girl. She was bisexual and down for casual fun.