"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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field report. book store pickup with number close!

00Kevin

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ok this came naturally to me today I didn't even plan this! :)

I was at the book store and saw nice girl looking the magazines.

She was in my way and I couldn't grab the mag that I wanted.

So I went up to her and said, "hey move it or... i'll body. 'check' you".

As I went to grab the mag, I made sure that the first part the sentance was rather hard sounding and then I took my time on the word "or..." as I reached for the mag. I hen changed my tone to sound funny as I checked her out a bit.. I also made sure that I made eye contact with her and smiled.

she thought this was funny and laughed. then I just started a simple convo with her about the mags. Just when the conversation started to become comfortable, I made sure I didn't linger on and tolder her I had to go. I went to turn around and stoped myself from walking away. then, outwith out thinking about it I said , "hey, sorry for any intrusion, but how about I call you sometime. I might have time to do something fun this week?"

The girl replied with, "oh no.. it's no intrusion. :) and gave me her number" after that I got her name. by saying.. "gee... maybe I should of asked your name first?" she laughed and I left with her name and number.

only problem is I went around the long way as I left and didn't buy the mag. I Just hope she didn't see that. Iput it down somplace else. I didn't want to stand with her in the line up and have to talk to her. I just wanted to get the hell out
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like a good one. Did you call her? How are things going?
 

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no i did not call her yet.. .thing is i'm not playing a game either. i too busy with work and other women that i really don't have time for her right now. i'll call her when i feel like it i guess. not sure when but it won't be within the next week.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
no i did not call her yet.. .thing is i'm not playing a game either. i too busy with work and other women that i really don't have time for her right now. i'll call her when i feel like it i guess. not sure when but it won't be within the next week.
I'm proud of 'ya... ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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