"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Field Report#16 : Finger girl in nightclub!!!

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most people on this forum aren’t one impromptu finger f**k away from a sexual assuage charge Ryan.
Instead of getting upset when people don’t validate your risky actions and are giving you a prespesctive that you clearly have not considered, why don’t you try to gain some insight here? You ask the board for advice then get upset at the board when they do just that. Don’t ask then. Also, have a lawyer on retainer if you’re going to insist on being sexually pushy with girls in bars or in your car on a dark country road at night.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Most people on this forum aren’t one impromptu finger f**k away from a sexual assuage charge Ryan.
Instead of getting upset when people don’t validate your risky actions and are giving you a prespesctive that you clearly have not considered, why don’t you try to gain some insight here? You ask the board for advice then get upset at the board when they do just that. Don’t ask then. Also, have a lawyer on retainer if you’re going to insist on being sexually pushy with girls in bars or in your car on a dark country road at night.
If it really was sexual assault, as you speculate it to be, then the bouncers (yes they saw me) would of definitely stopped me, but they did not.

Just because you finger a girl doesn't automatically equal sexual assault
 
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If it really was sexual assault, as you speculate it to be, then the bouncers (yes they saw me) would of definitely stopped me, but they did not.

Just because you finger a girl doesn't automatically equal sexual assault
I never stated that it’s automatically assault Ryan. What you did was risky because you didn’t have a clear signal to do it. It could of been seen a sexual assault. That potential was there. She could of pushed you away and called a bouncer over.
You need to drop the defensive act and wake up. You’re not a 16yr old kid so stop replying like you have no clue how your actions could be risky for you.
Try and learn how to do these things safer for your one sake. The next girl you try that with may react differently.
Or don’t learn, whatever, hey it’s your life if you would rather be right than do the right thing and potentially end up with a criminal conviction that follows you for the rest of your life have at it.
 

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Look, maybe these laws are over that top but they are laws.
If I was a guy I honestly wouldn’t even risk hooking up with a girl I met at a club who had been drinking a lot at least not in Canada. Being drunk can be argued that there was no consent.
She definitely wasn't drunk, her speech was very coherent, and there was not a hint of alcohol on her breath. A reasonable person, would even perceive her as sober.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Please, stop it. Me fingering that girl was no different than any other time any other guy here was fingering a girl.

What about all the other guys in the club grinding on girls? In that case most of the men in that club were "sexually assaulting" some random girl.

Like I mentioned before, if I really was sexually assaulting her, why didn't any of the bouncers do anything? Because they knew it was consensual...

If I see another guy on the street kissing a girl, I can also take it out of context (like you are doing now), and be like an idiot and say "ohhh look that guy is **sexually assaulting** that girl? oh my......even though she is enjoying and not providing any resistance...it must be sexual assault right?"
 

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Please, stop it. Me fingering that girl was no different than any other time any other guy here was fingering a girl.

What about all the other guys in the club grinding on girls? In that case most of the men in that club were "sexually assaulting" some random girl.

Like I mentioned before, know if I really was sexually assaulting her, why didn't any of the bouncers do anything? Because they knew it was consensual...

If I see another guy on the street kissing a girl, I can also take it out of context (like you are doing now), and be like an idiot and say "ohhh look that guy is **sexually assaulting** that girl? oh my......even though she is enjoying and not providing any resistance...it must be sexual assault right?"

You're so positive you did nothing wrong, I say from here on out you repeat this same behavior in every single club you go to and on every single date you are on. Everytime, with every woman. Then come back and Field report about it.
 

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You're so positive you did nothing wrong, I say from here on out you repeat this same behavior in every single club you go to and on every single date you are on. Everytime, with every woman. Then come back and Field report about it.
THATS WHAT i HAVE BEEN DOING IN EVERY SINGLE CLUB AND EVERY SINGLE DATE FOR THE PAST TWO DECADES
 
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