I know that you are having a hard time wrapping your head around why this woman's IL was low despite her "allowing" you to do what you did, because I can tell by your thirst, by the way you do things, by the way you are constantly the initiator trying to make something happen, by the way you get excited and write enthusiastically about the crumbs thrown to you, like your hand up someone's bra.... that you are always the one chasing; that you have seldom, if ever, experienced being the "target" of a horny woman who was coming on to you with the same kind of aggression you are practicing yourself.
Every man on this forum who has had an active and healthy sex life, and I will include the ladies here as well, have all at some point encountered our "moments of weakness" where a member of the opposite sex was the more sexually aggressive one... and for whatever reason, we just let it happen even though we weren't really attracted to that person.
Every person on the planet who "allowed" this situation to proceed knows that during that process, it did not mean we were highly interested in the person, wanted to give them our numbers or wanted to start dating and sleeping with them. Instead, the whole thing usually amounted to nothing more than a "fvck it" moment we had and often came to regret later.
I can tell by your reports that these are the types of women you are basically targeting: women who just "let it happen" in their moment of weakness; women who aren't really initiating or escalating on their own. YOU are the one always trying to push it further, and it is always YOU who fails and wonders what you could have done differently to take it all the way.
Do you know what will take you all the way, Ryan? It's simple: A woman with a higher IL. They'll make it easy for you. They will even initiate more and push it along themselves.
If you're constantly coming here wondering why it isn't happening for you, it is because THEY ARE NOT THAT FVCKING INTERESTED.
You have no clue that you are almost always swimming against the tide of interest, likely because you grossly OVERVALUE either passive interest or smaller IOIs.
You get a crumb of interest and react as if it's the green light to go all the way. You never step back a little to see if they pursue YOU with any real interest of their own.
It is always YOU INITIATING.
It is always YOU PUSHING.
It is always YOU TRYING.
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All that being said, I think I'm done with giving advice on these forums.
The resistance is not the same as it used to be.
It used to be blue pill guys who had a hard time swallowing the red pill; Guys who would argue with you because they still believed in fairy tales.
Now its just a flood of guys who think they are red pill because they read a few things online, think they know what they're doing, still fail, ask for advice, and then argue with you as if you're the clueless one who doesn't make any sense simply because their own lack of experience doesn't allow them to make sense of it.
But whatever, nevermind all of that.
It is when I see a convicted stalker who doesn't see what a potential date rapist is doing wrong and starts to offer his advise that it's time for me to get the fvck outta here.
