"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FIELD REPORT #11: HB ADMITS to giving me a sh!t test! Hear what she says...

Marlimus

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Today. She's an HB8, with a very cute face, kinda shy-looking, with really good skin and big eyes. I sit next to her and tease and neg her throughout class. I pick shedded hairs off of her sweater and tell her to buy a lint brush. During a presentation, a box of donuts, almost full, is passed to me, and as I pass them to her, I say: "Leave some for Sarah." (The girl who sits on the other side of her.) I comment on how she likes to wear black and tell her she's too goth.
I ask her for her phone number and she gives it to me, and I tease her by telling her that her handwriting isn't very ladylike.

Anyway, as part of the presentation there's free coffee, so I get up and get myself a cup and sit back down. The HB7.5, (Melissa) stretches out her hand as though to receive it, saying 'thanks" her face was dead serious. I made as though to give it to her, then pulled it away just as she was about to reach it, laughing at her. She looks at me in surprise and her friend teases and says:
"Geez what a gemtleman" and I say
"You guys have legs, don't you?"
Anyway as I was sipping my coffee, she says, without any prompting on my part:

"I didn't really want the coffee. I just wanted to see if you would give it to me."

I gave her the Han Solo response: "I know."

Before I leave, she stops me, and tells me that she's going to be getting a new phone tomorrow, and that that phone number she gave me will then be her little sister's since she's giivng her that phone, and gives me her IM screenname and email.

Straight from the horse's mouth.
Be the challenge. Always.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Boner da Stoner

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wow, she didn;t really want the coffee

props on the progress dude!!! That is some real **** there:p

Instead of the han solo after the I didn;t really want it why didn;t u C&F her? like I know, that's why I didn't give it to you, so your kinda supplicating and not at the same time, get it?

:p

next time she says that say "Well I wasn't really gonna give give it you" 'NOT!!!" and when she gives you the dumbfounded look ,you throw the coffee on her lap and run away shaking your arms above your head and laughing like a madman!!!
 

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Originally posted by Marlimus


I gave her the Han Solo response: "I know."
Its been a long time since I read up on the Hans Solo thing, does anyone know where I can read up more on it.

(tried a search, only got back one thread)
 

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This was very well played.

Bravo my friend, bravo.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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come to the dark side...:rockon:
 

Marlimus

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Its been a long time since I read up on the Hans Solo thing, does anyone know where I can read up more on it.
In the original star wars,
when Han Solo is about to be frozen in lead, or killed, I can't remember which, Princess Leia says to Han Solo: "I love you!" and he smirks at her and says "I know." Its one of the greatest ****y and funny lines EVER.
 

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lol gj... but i think this forum has become a lot more prude. Basically she thinks your cool at this point. These posts used to inspire me so much cuz getting a girl to do stuff seemed so amazing... but now its not that big of a deal for me. Goodjob tho, and keep it up
 
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