"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FIELD REPORT #11: HB ADMITS to giving me a sh!t test! Hear what she says...

Marlimus

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Today. She's an HB8, with a very cute face, kinda shy-looking, with really good skin and big eyes. I sit next to her and tease and neg her throughout class. I pick shedded hairs off of her sweater and tell her to buy a lint brush. During a presentation, a box of donuts, almost full, is passed to me, and as I pass them to her, I say: "Leave some for Sarah." (The girl who sits on the other side of her.) I comment on how she likes to wear black and tell her she's too goth.
I ask her for her phone number and she gives it to me, and I tease her by telling her that her handwriting isn't very ladylike.

Anyway, as part of the presentation there's free coffee, so I get up and get myself a cup and sit back down. The HB7.5, (Melissa) stretches out her hand as though to receive it, saying 'thanks" her face was dead serious. I made as though to give it to her, then pulled it away just as she was about to reach it, laughing at her. She looks at me in surprise and her friend teases and says:
"Geez what a gemtleman" and I say
"You guys have legs, don't you?"
Anyway as I was sipping my coffee, she says, without any prompting on my part:

"I didn't really want the coffee. I just wanted to see if you would give it to me."

I gave her the Han Solo response: "I know."

Before I leave, she stops me, and tells me that she's going to be getting a new phone tomorrow, and that that phone number she gave me will then be her little sister's since she's giivng her that phone, and gives me her IM screenname and email.

Straight from the horse's mouth.
Be the challenge. Always.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow, she didn;t really want the coffee

props on the progress dude!!! That is some real **** there:p

Instead of the han solo after the I didn;t really want it why didn;t u C&F her? like I know, that's why I didn't give it to you, so your kinda supplicating and not at the same time, get it?

:p

next time she says that say "Well I wasn't really gonna give give it you" 'NOT!!!" and when she gives you the dumbfounded look ,you throw the coffee on her lap and run away shaking your arms above your head and laughing like a madman!!!
 

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Originally posted by Marlimus


I gave her the Han Solo response: "I know."
Its been a long time since I read up on the Hans Solo thing, does anyone know where I can read up more on it.

(tried a search, only got back one thread)
 

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This was very well played.

Bravo my friend, bravo.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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come to the dark side...:rockon:
 

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Its been a long time since I read up on the Hans Solo thing, does anyone know where I can read up more on it.
In the original star wars,
when Han Solo is about to be frozen in lead, or killed, I can't remember which, Princess Leia says to Han Solo: "I love you!" and he smirks at her and says "I know." Its one of the greatest ****y and funny lines EVER.
 

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lol gj... but i think this forum has become a lot more prude. Basically she thinks your cool at this point. These posts used to inspire me so much cuz getting a girl to do stuff seemed so amazing... but now its not that big of a deal for me. Goodjob tho, and keep it up
 
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