"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feminization of our society?

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Today in my class the teacher said:

"I strongly think that the men in our society are getting more and more effiminated".
(She was referring to how most of the boys **** their pants at the mere thought of approaching a girl).

She wants us to give us some obvious examples that could prove her hypothesis. Do you guys have some that comes to your mind?

All I have from now is:

-Parents' advices when it comes to relationships : they all go along the lines of 'Just be yourself and eventualy someone will fall in love with you' Eventualy? That means I can't do anything right now to get girl X?

aint that good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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THE_ADDMAN

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Search the threads


theres a wealth of info on here
 

GaryUranga

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on a side note: "be yourself" is good advice to some point, as long as that means just be confortable and confident of yourself, the game will catch up with you if you have those.
 
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good advice in general:

chill, mistakes make u human

be confident but not arrogant

and for the love of god cut the cussing it doesnt impress anyone (same goes for the "gangsta" attitude)
 

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Tell your teacher there is no such word as effeminated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cruise

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Your teacher just wants some youngbuck to prove her wrong. Nahmsayin?
 
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