"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Feminization of our society?

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Today in my class the teacher said:

"I strongly think that the men in our society are getting more and more effiminated".
(She was referring to how most of the boys **** their pants at the mere thought of approaching a girl).

She wants us to give us some obvious examples that could prove her hypothesis. Do you guys have some that comes to your mind?

All I have from now is:

-Parents' advices when it comes to relationships : they all go along the lines of 'Just be yourself and eventualy someone will fall in love with you' Eventualy? That means I can't do anything right now to get girl X?

aint that good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Search the threads


theres a wealth of info on here
 
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GaryUranga

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on a side note: "be yourself" is good advice to some point, as long as that means just be confortable and confident of yourself, the game will catch up with you if you have those.
 
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The Columbus Myth

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good advice in general:

chill, mistakes make u human

be confident but not arrogant

and for the love of god cut the cussing it doesnt impress anyone (same goes for the "gangsta" attitude)
 
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Tell your teacher there is no such word as effeminated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your teacher just wants some youngbuck to prove her wrong. Nahmsayin?
 
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