"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feminization of our society?

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Today in my class the teacher said:

"I strongly think that the men in our society are getting more and more effiminated".
(She was referring to how most of the boys **** their pants at the mere thought of approaching a girl).

She wants us to give us some obvious examples that could prove her hypothesis. Do you guys have some that comes to your mind?

All I have from now is:

-Parents' advices when it comes to relationships : they all go along the lines of 'Just be yourself and eventualy someone will fall in love with you' Eventualy? That means I can't do anything right now to get girl X?

aint that good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Search the threads


theres a wealth of info on here
 
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on a side note: "be yourself" is good advice to some point, as long as that means just be confortable and confident of yourself, the game will catch up with you if you have those.
 
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The Columbus Myth

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good advice in general:

chill, mistakes make u human

be confident but not arrogant

and for the love of god cut the cussing it doesnt impress anyone (same goes for the "gangsta" attitude)
 
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Tell your teacher there is no such word as effeminated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your teacher just wants some youngbuck to prove her wrong. Nahmsayin?
 
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