"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feminism was correct after all

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feminism was right,patriarchy does indeed suck big time
my mom is a housewife we depend on dad income.whenever he gets
into argument with me he says who pays bill to keep y alive
and mom shut up totaly bc she got no income.if divorced now theres
no way lviing stabdard can be kept at curent level.
bad cycle continues.im stil siting in my room as broke jobless
uni student pursuign 100%no use BA degre.i see no future in myself
but already late toomuch paid for me to quit now.universal basic income is a foolish dream that can never be achievved always will be.
if theres any NEET out here that count on the idea i tell u do not,
bc u wil be disapointed a lot.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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feminism was right,patriarchy does indeed suck big time
Wtf? How old are you?

my mom is a housewife we depend on dad income.
And you think things would be better if she was earning the bacon and he was a stay at home dad?

whenever he gets
into argument with me he says who pays bill to keep y alive
and mom shut up totaly bc she got no income.if divorced now theres
no way lviing stabdard can be kept at curent level.
Either accept living on your own terms with a lower standard or stop whining about your dad.
 
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For every good man there is a bad man. Genuinely good people are rare. Being strong is not just a physical thing. It means striving for emotional maturity and growth. Many men dont have that ambition. This is especially true when humanity transitioned to a nuclear family suburban way of life. There were no more elders making sure that the man of the house was not abusing his power.

Weak men are ultimately to blame for feminism. That being said women need STRONG and FAIR male guidance or else they devolve into fantasy and chaos.
 

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This isn't a problem with the model, it's a problem with a single person, your Dad.

Stop trying to extrapolate things across the board because your single experience isn't great.

It would be like saying dating doesn't work because I can't get laid meanwhile dudes are out there banging 4 new women a week.
 

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im stil siting in my room as broke jobless
uni student pursuign 100%no use BA degre.i see no future in myself
but already late toomuch paid for me to quit now.
You posted in Wealth & Success, so maybe you can provide some details of which degree and what you plan to do with it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Feminism is only good for degenerates that wanna fucc low-value women in the butt and engage in hook-up culture
In regards to humanity and society Feminism is part of the symptom that is part of a bigger global agenda by the elites so many guys miss the forest from the trees, But it's not women that is your enemy but other men. Men who have wicked intentions that have spiritual ramifications that the average guy can't fathom cause you need a 120 IQ to at least understand the concepts of these ideas....
 

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Feminism is only good for degenerates that wanna fucc low-value women in the butt and engage in hook-up culture
In regards to humanity and society Feminism is part of the symptom that is part of a bigger global agenda by the elites so many guys miss the forest from the trees, But it's not women that is your enemy but other men. Men who have wicked intentions that have spiritual ramifications that the average guy can't fathom cause you need a 120 IQ to at least understand the concepts of these ideas....
Strange choice of forum to post this type of invective on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yikes, bro! Its like studying to become a professional useless person or something. Maybe try a teaching job?

There´s a million things you could do, but all the advice and suggestions in the world wont help you if you dont change your mindset first. Stop with the victim mentality.
 
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Father comes to room mext to mine opens curtain makes such loud ass noise at fkn 8am.he has hiatory of DV ,dont wana directly confront him. Even when i do, my requests are dismissed with gaslighting eg "u care too much" "u crazy" NO, it was his treatmenf of me that made me crazy
 

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A therapist can help with your lack of hope. Your university might have counseling for studeInts
They failed my exam, bonus higher tuition next term... God rly hates me
Yikes, bro! Its like studying to become a professional useless person or something. Maybe try a teaching job?

There´s a million thing you could do, but all the advice and suggestions in the world wont help you if you dont change your mindset first. Stop with the victim mentality.
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Want a higher pay job like day trader instead
victim mentality. Word loved bty right wing ,even kanye used it,but is it blacks fault if they get shot due to skin color?
 

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Yikes, bro! Its like studying to become a professional useless person or something. Maybe try a teaching job?

There´s a million thing you could do, but all the advice and suggestions in the world wont help you if you dont change your mindset first. Stop with the victim mentality.
how can i contribute to site like u do? I also want to be a mod bc i love helping other men get his life together.
 

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how can i contribute to site like u do? I also want to be a mod bc i love helping other men get his life together.
You can always contribute to the site and help guys out, you don't need to be a moderator to do that. Help yourself first though, can't help anyone else if you can't even help yourself.

You'll only be able to apply to become a mod if there's a need for new mods, we just recently filled up on new mods so it will probably be several years until applications open up again.

Besides, being a moderator grants you less time to help men get their life together, because you instead spend that time and effort helping the forum just to function so others can keep helping those who need it. Think of it as being a digital janitor, cleaning up others mess and getting little appreciation for it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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