"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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feminism argument gone bad

spang

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im a member of this group on facebook. the debate was basically about feminism, misogyny, and misandry. it got on the subject of dating, and i basically shared my opinion on it. i talked about things i learned here, how women have tons of options and men have none, how much harder it is to be a man, how feminism ruined dating and everything else. it caused a ****storm. one of my good friends from the group unfriended me because she was so offended. i think i offended all the girls in the group.
i presented my argument in respectful way, i didnt insult anyone. i back up my argument with facts, links, videos. i made it clear i was not generalizing all women, but that its a great majority of them. no one could return a rational argument, all i got was insults and "youre just wrong."
i normally take things on facebook with a grain of salt but this got under my skin. im so tired of being treated like garbage by women when i dont deserve it. thats what gets under my skin is the disrespect they give men today.
why are people so dumb? women are so deluded and full of crap. every single one thinks they deserve a rich prince, theyre so out of touch with reality.
i figured out recently that this is part of my problem. im so fvckng angry at them. the reason i get so nervous approaching is because im an average looking guy and i can never meet their expectations. ive done it so much and got so much ****, that part of me doesnt want to anymore. you could put a gun to my head and you still couldnt motivate me.
nothing makes me more angry than feminism. its a crock of shiat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's great bro. I understand your issue.

I am a great looking guy I must admit, with the bonus of having African origins and so naturally cannot really relate to your post.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Toast123 said:
That's great bro. I understand your issue.

I am a great looking guy I must admit, with the bonus of having African origins and so naturally cannot really relate to your post.
Ok you are hilarious I'm just putting it out there, thanks for brightening up this forum a little bit! Also good then you're red so people know not to take you seriously

OP I'm really glad you made this thread. You seem like a totally honest dude, and your experience shows modern American attitude. A similar thing happened to me in high school when discussing feminism, even my teacher started insulting me and simple told me, "you're wrong marvin,"

Really strange stuff! I'm glad you get it.

But it's too bad that person unfriended you, and it's too bad you're slightly bitter about it. It's time to use your knowledge to positively change your life.

You say you're average. The simple solution is to stop being average, and start being better than other. You have the knowledge, now's the time to use it

But i'm just a young dude I'm not a guru or anything, so take my advice with a grain of salt
 

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Not such a loss if she unfriended you because of it. I'd rather people unfriend me if they disagree. I can imagine if you hung out with that girl the drama she would cause that you just wouldn't want so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

It's good that you stood up and said what YOU think even in the face of all that. Good job.
 

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they only got upset because you had facts and figures, whereas they sat there with no tampons on an ON day.
If she unfriended you over that ish, then she wasnt really a friend, and youve been kicked from her orbit, Congrats ;-)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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It happened the same to me except that the friend was a guy and he unfriened me after I told him that putting likes to girls post making fun of him and keep being a male cvnt would have left him sex starved.

I also told him that he is a nice guy not intended at all as a compliment...he unfriended me, well guess fattie approval is more important than the light to him.

I even tried to give him the red pill only to have him say that my success is artificial and that Im dealing with slvtty girls.

The guy is a good guy but has the germ of envy and ego investment in the role the matrix gave him.

Op dont pay attention to that, some weak mined people take decisions based on the emotion of the moment, and the unfriending is some kind of "psychological revenge".

However I suggest you for the future to keep a low profile while dealing with women, be honest and teach guys as long as they are willing to learn but while dealing with women simply avoid confrontation in this field.
 
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