"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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feminism argument gone bad

spang

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im a member of this group on facebook. the debate was basically about feminism, misogyny, and misandry. it got on the subject of dating, and i basically shared my opinion on it. i talked about things i learned here, how women have tons of options and men have none, how much harder it is to be a man, how feminism ruined dating and everything else. it caused a ****storm. one of my good friends from the group unfriended me because she was so offended. i think i offended all the girls in the group.
i presented my argument in respectful way, i didnt insult anyone. i back up my argument with facts, links, videos. i made it clear i was not generalizing all women, but that its a great majority of them. no one could return a rational argument, all i got was insults and "youre just wrong."
i normally take things on facebook with a grain of salt but this got under my skin. im so tired of being treated like garbage by women when i dont deserve it. thats what gets under my skin is the disrespect they give men today.
why are people so dumb? women are so deluded and full of crap. every single one thinks they deserve a rich prince, theyre so out of touch with reality.
i figured out recently that this is part of my problem. im so fvckng angry at them. the reason i get so nervous approaching is because im an average looking guy and i can never meet their expectations. ive done it so much and got so much ****, that part of me doesnt want to anymore. you could put a gun to my head and you still couldnt motivate me.
nothing makes me more angry than feminism. its a crock of shiat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's great bro. I understand your issue.

I am a great looking guy I must admit, with the bonus of having African origins and so naturally cannot really relate to your post.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Toast123 said:
That's great bro. I understand your issue.

I am a great looking guy I must admit, with the bonus of having African origins and so naturally cannot really relate to your post.
Ok you are hilarious I'm just putting it out there, thanks for brightening up this forum a little bit! Also good then you're red so people know not to take you seriously

OP I'm really glad you made this thread. You seem like a totally honest dude, and your experience shows modern American attitude. A similar thing happened to me in high school when discussing feminism, even my teacher started insulting me and simple told me, "you're wrong marvin,"

Really strange stuff! I'm glad you get it.

But it's too bad that person unfriended you, and it's too bad you're slightly bitter about it. It's time to use your knowledge to positively change your life.

You say you're average. The simple solution is to stop being average, and start being better than other. You have the knowledge, now's the time to use it

But i'm just a young dude I'm not a guru or anything, so take my advice with a grain of salt
 

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Not such a loss if she unfriended you because of it. I'd rather people unfriend me if they disagree. I can imagine if you hung out with that girl the drama she would cause that you just wouldn't want so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

It's good that you stood up and said what YOU think even in the face of all that. Good job.
 

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they only got upset because you had facts and figures, whereas they sat there with no tampons on an ON day.
If she unfriended you over that ish, then she wasnt really a friend, and youve been kicked from her orbit, Congrats ;-)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who Dares Win

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It happened the same to me except that the friend was a guy and he unfriened me after I told him that putting likes to girls post making fun of him and keep being a male cvnt would have left him sex starved.

I also told him that he is a nice guy not intended at all as a compliment...he unfriended me, well guess fattie approval is more important than the light to him.

I even tried to give him the red pill only to have him say that my success is artificial and that Im dealing with slvtty girls.

The guy is a good guy but has the germ of envy and ego investment in the role the matrix gave him.

Op dont pay attention to that, some weak mined people take decisions based on the emotion of the moment, and the unfriending is some kind of "psychological revenge".

However I suggest you for the future to keep a low profile while dealing with women, be honest and teach guys as long as they are willing to learn but while dealing with women simply avoid confrontation in this field.
 
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