"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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feminism argument gone bad

spang

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im a member of this group on facebook. the debate was basically about feminism, misogyny, and misandry. it got on the subject of dating, and i basically shared my opinion on it. i talked about things i learned here, how women have tons of options and men have none, how much harder it is to be a man, how feminism ruined dating and everything else. it caused a ****storm. one of my good friends from the group unfriended me because she was so offended. i think i offended all the girls in the group.
i presented my argument in respectful way, i didnt insult anyone. i back up my argument with facts, links, videos. i made it clear i was not generalizing all women, but that its a great majority of them. no one could return a rational argument, all i got was insults and "youre just wrong."
i normally take things on facebook with a grain of salt but this got under my skin. im so tired of being treated like garbage by women when i dont deserve it. thats what gets under my skin is the disrespect they give men today.
why are people so dumb? women are so deluded and full of crap. every single one thinks they deserve a rich prince, theyre so out of touch with reality.
i figured out recently that this is part of my problem. im so fvckng angry at them. the reason i get so nervous approaching is because im an average looking guy and i can never meet their expectations. ive done it so much and got so much ****, that part of me doesnt want to anymore. you could put a gun to my head and you still couldnt motivate me.
nothing makes me more angry than feminism. its a crock of shiat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's great bro. I understand your issue.

I am a great looking guy I must admit, with the bonus of having African origins and so naturally cannot really relate to your post.
 

Marvin Gaye

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Toast123 said:
That's great bro. I understand your issue.

I am a great looking guy I must admit, with the bonus of having African origins and so naturally cannot really relate to your post.
Ok you are hilarious I'm just putting it out there, thanks for brightening up this forum a little bit! Also good then you're red so people know not to take you seriously

OP I'm really glad you made this thread. You seem like a totally honest dude, and your experience shows modern American attitude. A similar thing happened to me in high school when discussing feminism, even my teacher started insulting me and simple told me, "you're wrong marvin,"

Really strange stuff! I'm glad you get it.

But it's too bad that person unfriended you, and it's too bad you're slightly bitter about it. It's time to use your knowledge to positively change your life.

You say you're average. The simple solution is to stop being average, and start being better than other. You have the knowledge, now's the time to use it

But i'm just a young dude I'm not a guru or anything, so take my advice with a grain of salt
 

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Not such a loss if she unfriended you because of it. I'd rather people unfriend me if they disagree. I can imagine if you hung out with that girl the drama she would cause that you just wouldn't want so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

It's good that you stood up and said what YOU think even in the face of all that. Good job.
 

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they only got upset because you had facts and figures, whereas they sat there with no tampons on an ON day.
If she unfriended you over that ish, then she wasnt really a friend, and youve been kicked from her orbit, Congrats ;-)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who Dares Win

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It happened the same to me except that the friend was a guy and he unfriened me after I told him that putting likes to girls post making fun of him and keep being a male cvnt would have left him sex starved.

I also told him that he is a nice guy not intended at all as a compliment...he unfriended me, well guess fattie approval is more important than the light to him.

I even tried to give him the red pill only to have him say that my success is artificial and that Im dealing with slvtty girls.

The guy is a good guy but has the germ of envy and ego investment in the role the matrix gave him.

Op dont pay attention to that, some weak mined people take decisions based on the emotion of the moment, and the unfriending is some kind of "psychological revenge".

However I suggest you for the future to keep a low profile while dealing with women, be honest and teach guys as long as they are willing to learn but while dealing with women simply avoid confrontation in this field.
 
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