When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
so you are telling me pretty woman are insecure about they looks and self esteem? damn would never know lolHuge sign of insecurity. I know a girl who is 24 now and hasn't been single for more than like 6 months total since she was 17.
She told me she doesn't know how to be single.
She's really pretty, former college cheerleader even, but absolutely zero self esteem.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
45 c0cks would not be half the ****s in any city. Over half of those could've been one night stands as she's trying to one up and gossip with her slvtty single friends.I would prefer a woman that is ok being single but just face it, all attractive women jump from relationship to relationship, that's what they do. They see a guy casually for two months, then they find a bf and they are with him for 3 years. Then she has two months break, and finds another bf. This time she dates him for 1.5 years. They break up. She has sex with 5 new guys, and she has one mini relationship with another one. Then she finds another bf; in this case they are together for 4 years, or get married. etc, etc.
When she's around 28 she gets married and the poor guy gets a woman that had 45 cöcks before him. Great!! How do you feel knowing your wife fvcked half the guys in the city?
I do agree that a certain amount of c0cks does desensitize them a bit, but they can grow out of it.is she damaged goods? oh yeah. Can you do anything about it? yes, date a girl 7 or more years younger than you, so at least she's fvcked less guys , she's still young, and she's not settling with you because she hasn't yet reached the Wall. (ie, being around 30 and looking desperately to get married and have children).
It is how it is.