Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
so you are telling me pretty woman are insecure about they looks and self esteem? damn would never know lolHuge sign of insecurity. I know a girl who is 24 now and hasn't been single for more than like 6 months total since she was 17.
She told me she doesn't know how to be single.
She's really pretty, former college cheerleader even, but absolutely zero self esteem.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
45 c0cks would not be half the ****s in any city. Over half of those could've been one night stands as she's trying to one up and gossip with her slvtty single friends.I would prefer a woman that is ok being single but just face it, all attractive women jump from relationship to relationship, that's what they do. They see a guy casually for two months, then they find a bf and they are with him for 3 years. Then she has two months break, and finds another bf. This time she dates him for 1.5 years. They break up. She has sex with 5 new guys, and she has one mini relationship with another one. Then she finds another bf; in this case they are together for 4 years, or get married. etc, etc.
When she's around 28 she gets married and the poor guy gets a woman that had 45 cöcks before him. Great!! How do you feel knowing your wife fvcked half the guys in the city?
I do agree that a certain amount of c0cks does desensitize them a bit, but they can grow out of it.is she damaged goods? oh yeah. Can you do anything about it? yes, date a girl 7 or more years younger than you, so at least she's fvcked less guys , she's still young, and she's not settling with you because she hasn't yet reached the Wall. (ie, being around 30 and looking desperately to get married and have children).
It is how it is.