"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Females that jump from relationship to relationship

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Red flag #1 in my book. Huge indication of insecurity and unstable identity. With them you're merely serving a function (well, that's all women--but with serial monogamists it's not even a particularly selective function).

Plus, in my experience I've never met a serial monogamist who wouldn't cheat on her bf.
 

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I agree. Something is going on with anyone who just cant be alone for any length of time. They are usually desperate to get into a relationship and always maintaining backups. Avoid.
 

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Huge sign of insecurity. I know a girl who is 24 now and hasn't been single for more than like 6 months total since she was 17.

She told me she doesn't know how to be single.

She's really pretty, former college cheerleader even, but absolutely zero self esteem.
 

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Huge sign of insecurity. I know a girl who is 24 now and hasn't been single for more than like 6 months total since she was 17.

She told me she doesn't know how to be single.

She's really pretty, former college cheerleader even, but absolutely zero self esteem.
so you are telling me pretty woman are insecure about they looks and self esteem? damn would never know lol

jokes aside, all woman are insecure, only diference is more pretty she is more likely she will want to be reminded of it, and like the atencion(if the guy is at least cute if not that is creepy) and that would mean even cheating if it would make herself feel better other like to use instagram, and we know ther eis not shortage to guys who use this girl for fapping material
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not sure what my position is on this issue per se. I think women who do this do it for any or all of the following reasons - 1) sex 2)companionship/company/lonelyness 3) insecurity 4)resources. The first 3 could be any female or male. Let's face it, we all know as men that we all desire women for #1 and #2, I think most or all of us would stipulate to that. But even #3 can be us sometimes too, right? Sometimes we just want a GF even those of us who can get laid anytime we want with FWBs, ONSs, even hookers for those who partake in those, etc... Nothing wrong with a GF. #4 though is the one that shoots up my blood pressure.. Women who suck a guy dry mentally, physically, and financially. Then when he is all dried up they jump to the next guy and start fresh again. And they do it with no empathy or remorse, or with any caring to what they are really doing to him. Or any knowledge or caring to how hard he has worked his whole life to make the money that she just blew in 6 months.. It's "hers" she is entitled to it because she gave him poon.. Its these situations that make women as a whole disgust me more than any other thing they do.
 

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I would prefer a woman that is ok being single but just face it, all attractive women jump from relationship to relationship, that's what they do. They see a guy casually for two months, then they find a bf and they are with him for 3 years. Then she has two months break, and finds another bf. This time she dates him for 1.5 years. They break up. She has sex with 5 new guys, and she has one mini relationship with another one. Then she finds another bf; in this case they are together for 4 years, or get married. etc, etc.

When she's around 28 she gets married and the poor guy gets a woman that had 45 cöcks before him. Great!! How do you feel knowing your wife fvcked half the guys in the city?

is she damaged goods? oh yeah. Can you do anything about it? yes, date a girl 7 or more years younger than you, so at least she's fvcked less guys , she's still young, and she's not settling with you because she hasn't yet reached the Wall. (ie, being around 30 and looking desperately to get married and have children).

It is how it is.
 
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I would prefer a woman that is ok being single but just face it, all attractive women jump from relationship to relationship, that's what they do. They see a guy casually for two months, then they find a bf and they are with him for 3 years. Then she has two months break, and finds another bf. This time she dates him for 1.5 years. They break up. She has sex with 5 new guys, and she has one mini relationship with another one. Then she finds another bf; in this case they are together for 4 years, or get married. etc, etc.

When she's around 28 she gets married and the poor guy gets a woman that had 45 cöcks before him. Great!! How do you feel knowing your wife fvcked half the guys in the city?
45 c0cks would not be half the ****s in any city. Over half of those could've been one night stands as she's trying to one up and gossip with her slvtty single friends.

is she damaged goods? oh yeah. Can you do anything about it? yes, date a girl 7 or more years younger than you, so at least she's fvcked less guys , she's still young, and she's not settling with you because she hasn't yet reached the Wall. (ie, being around 30 and looking desperately to get married and have children).

It is how it is.
I do agree that a certain amount of c0cks does desensitize them a bit, but they can grow out of it.
 

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yeah, they can grow 13 unwanted children, that's all.
 
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