Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Females that jump from relationship to relationship

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Red flag #1 in my book. Huge indication of insecurity and unstable identity. With them you're merely serving a function (well, that's all women--but with serial monogamists it's not even a particularly selective function).

Plus, in my experience I've never met a serial monogamist who wouldn't cheat on her bf.
 

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I agree. Something is going on with anyone who just cant be alone for any length of time. They are usually desperate to get into a relationship and always maintaining backups. Avoid.
 

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Huge sign of insecurity. I know a girl who is 24 now and hasn't been single for more than like 6 months total since she was 17.

She told me she doesn't know how to be single.

She's really pretty, former college cheerleader even, but absolutely zero self esteem.
 

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Huge sign of insecurity. I know a girl who is 24 now and hasn't been single for more than like 6 months total since she was 17.

She told me she doesn't know how to be single.

She's really pretty, former college cheerleader even, but absolutely zero self esteem.
so you are telling me pretty woman are insecure about they looks and self esteem? damn would never know lol

jokes aside, all woman are insecure, only diference is more pretty she is more likely she will want to be reminded of it, and like the atencion(if the guy is at least cute if not that is creepy) and that would mean even cheating if it would make herself feel better other like to use instagram, and we know ther eis not shortage to guys who use this girl for fapping material
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm not sure what my position is on this issue per se. I think women who do this do it for any or all of the following reasons - 1) sex 2)companionship/company/lonelyness 3) insecurity 4)resources. The first 3 could be any female or male. Let's face it, we all know as men that we all desire women for #1 and #2, I think most or all of us would stipulate to that. But even #3 can be us sometimes too, right? Sometimes we just want a GF even those of us who can get laid anytime we want with FWBs, ONSs, even hookers for those who partake in those, etc... Nothing wrong with a GF. #4 though is the one that shoots up my blood pressure.. Women who suck a guy dry mentally, physically, and financially. Then when he is all dried up they jump to the next guy and start fresh again. And they do it with no empathy or remorse, or with any caring to what they are really doing to him. Or any knowledge or caring to how hard he has worked his whole life to make the money that she just blew in 6 months.. It's "hers" she is entitled to it because she gave him poon.. Its these situations that make women as a whole disgust me more than any other thing they do.
 

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I would prefer a woman that is ok being single but just face it, all attractive women jump from relationship to relationship, that's what they do. They see a guy casually for two months, then they find a bf and they are with him for 3 years. Then she has two months break, and finds another bf. This time she dates him for 1.5 years. They break up. She has sex with 5 new guys, and she has one mini relationship with another one. Then she finds another bf; in this case they are together for 4 years, or get married. etc, etc.

When she's around 28 she gets married and the poor guy gets a woman that had 45 cöcks before him. Great!! How do you feel knowing your wife fvcked half the guys in the city?

is she damaged goods? oh yeah. Can you do anything about it? yes, date a girl 7 or more years younger than you, so at least she's fvcked less guys , she's still young, and she's not settling with you because she hasn't yet reached the Wall. (ie, being around 30 and looking desperately to get married and have children).

It is how it is.
 
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I would prefer a woman that is ok being single but just face it, all attractive women jump from relationship to relationship, that's what they do. They see a guy casually for two months, then they find a bf and they are with him for 3 years. Then she has two months break, and finds another bf. This time she dates him for 1.5 years. They break up. She has sex with 5 new guys, and she has one mini relationship with another one. Then she finds another bf; in this case they are together for 4 years, or get married. etc, etc.

When she's around 28 she gets married and the poor guy gets a woman that had 45 cöcks before him. Great!! How do you feel knowing your wife fvcked half the guys in the city?
45 c0cks would not be half the ****s in any city. Over half of those could've been one night stands as she's trying to one up and gossip with her slvtty single friends.

is she damaged goods? oh yeah. Can you do anything about it? yes, date a girl 7 or more years younger than you, so at least she's fvcked less guys , she's still young, and she's not settling with you because she hasn't yet reached the Wall. (ie, being around 30 and looking desperately to get married and have children).

It is how it is.
I do agree that a certain amount of c0cks does desensitize them a bit, but they can grow out of it.
 

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yeah, they can grow 13 unwanted children, that's all.
 
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