Females repeatedly losing interest

[FruitLoops]

Your concern is you get ghosted??? Well, I don't know the rest of us, but i do get ghosted too. Just don't reach out to the ghost and look for the living puss. When the ghost comes back, then you fvck it. There nothing you can do about it. Don't blame yourself.

My concern not just getting ghosted. My concern is, getting same results over and over despite consistently improving my game strategy.

 

[FruitLoops]

Do you have this prob?

Yeah. Come to think about it, i am not the greatest in this area.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Although there will be exceptions to the rule, there will always be patterns.

If you have text messages or e-mails saved, look for patterns of when there was a decline. I'm serious.

Self objectivity can be difficult, but clues can be discovered if you look hard enough.

 

[user252009]

your SMV isnt high enough for the don corleone act, also your ending up in her bed,

you should be in your bed.

all of her plates end up in her bed, she becomes the king and you the court jester.

make sense? unfortunately nature is a thing, and women love winners.

good point, never thought of this before!

 

[derby1]

dont beat yourself up to much, I work in the social services and women can have a meeting with you one day, then act like you never spoke the day after.....they are the strangest species

 

[BackInTheGame78]

OK so this is the point in time where you have realized you have the same problem over and over. This means it is something YOU are doing that is causing it.

Now you need to do a deep dive into what it is that is causing this to happen...

 

[FruitLoops]

OK so this is the point in time where you have realized you have the same problem over and over. This means it is something YOU are doing that is causing it.

Now you need to do a deep dive into what it is that is causing this to happen...

One thing that I realised after zekko's reply here was that maybe i stay a bit too aloof and distant that it causes females to eventually lose interest. I have difficulty deciding the balance between being needy and aloof.
Secondly $€xual performance is the issue. I dont know where to look up for help regarding this issue. I posted here quite some time back but couldnt get any help.

 

[metalwater]

Secondly $€xual performance is the issue. I don't know where to look up for help regarding this issue. I posted here quite some time back but couldnt get any help.

I did see this older post; some pretty funny replies. And a couple of useful ones.

I have heard a lot that one should know about the plumbing. Are there any tips one might share for being better at it. What women like in bed? How do you satisfy them?

what about that do you think is the issue? there is a good number of very different guys on this forum, someone will know but you have to tell enough to give them something they can answer.

there is a lot of youtube video on the topic to tell about the mechanics of it all, as in what to do and how.

what specifically makes you think this is the issue?

there can be mental and or physical issues and one can cause the other. all of them can be improved; usually by a lot.

one thing you can do is date someone that is lower SMV than you and practice a lot. that way you will not be intimidated by them or worried about if they are impressed. then just have some fun; again and again and again...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I did see this older post; some pretty funny replies. And a couple of useful ones.



what about that do you think is the issue? there is a good number of very different guys on this forum, someone will know but you have to tell enough to give them something they can answer.

there is a lot of youtube video on the topic to tell about the mechanics of it all, as in what to do and how.

what specifically makes you think this is the issue?

there can be mental and or physical issues and one can cause the other. all of them can be improved; usually by a lot.

one thing you can do is date someone that is lower SMV than you and practice a lot. that way you will not be intimidated by them or worried about if they are impressed. then just have some fun; again and again and again...

The old and tried and true way of dating, or having a GF was she had to be at least 1 pt down ANYWAYS. This is for her to appreciate you. If it's 1 or greater than you, they won't appreciate you, unless you have massive status to make up the difference.

 

[Stoic]

This will probably be an unpopular statement on this forum, but is it possible you aren't invested enough? Maybe the girls would like to have more contact with a guy if they're going to consider sticking around with them. Maybe they'll drift off to a guy who will give them more time together? Could that be what's going on?

Most of the strategy here is about making the girl miss you, but most PUA tactics are geared toward short term lays, not for keeping girls around.

Spot on Zekko.

 

[backseatjuan]

Any thoughts on this?

If it happens after sex that means penis size isn't there or something else, perhaps you orgasm too quick, or have no clue what you doing in bed.

If it happens after X that means Y.

After what does it happen?

 

[FruitLoops]

If it happens after sex that means penis size isn't there or something else, perhaps you orgasm too quick, or have no clue what you doing in bed.

If it happens after X that means Y.

After what does it happen?

I cant say that p€n!s size can be the issue here. The last girl i was with, we only kissed and the next time we were she decided to stay friends for some reason. The one before that, that one i had issues while having $€x. I couldnt figure out what all positions to go for, sometimes i would c@m quickly. I remember she once made a comment about my kissing saying if i learnt to kiss from my mum. It was terrible. But bottom line is, this is the area where i lack and i surely need help with.

 

[Visionist]

Dude just watch a lot of hardcore porn for inspiration.

My first sexual experiences weren't great, frankly they were lousy looking back. But they were a lot better than they would otherwise have been, because I was watching a lot of porn.

When you watch a lot of people have wild sex, you tend to pick up ideas. Rapidly.

I can recommend watching Defyxxx and Heavy On Hotties. Two dudes who know what all women enjoy doing.