Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
females are stupid
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Approach, game, close.
Make a move. FVCK, enjoy.
Drama or no interest. Move on to the next.
That's it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Spot on brahTheGambino said:
It doesn't take logic to love.
zekko
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I agree, I've known some women who were very highly skilled at manipulating men. It's probably not that hard though, when you have the tools (they're playing on their beauty and the natural effect it has on males). Takes some ruthlessness to pull it off though.Jack89 said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuanit0
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Are there women who can think logically on matters of feelings?
Are there women who understand what they can do with their bodies, but still think the brains are important as well?
Are there women who will legitimaly love someone for what he is and not for what he makes HER feel?
I personally, have not met one! I have met smart women, yes, but they still have problems!
We men do too have problems, but we are not all the same! Someone can be nice, while someone else can be jerk. Someone can have some personality disorders while someone else can have something completely different. I have not seen a common problem in all of men, as it happens with women.
I've never watched it, but I get the impression that's what Jersey Shore is all about.
Actually, what's even more intriguing is to watch a very intelligent "together" woman caught in a heavy moment of hamster spinning when her femaleness kicks in. Like a hounddog deciding between a treat and barking at the neighbor's cat...head goes back and forth and you can hear the gears turning.
no Jersey Shore is about seeing how many braincells you can have killed and still manage to live.Don_Dom said:
make it a rule now....if you know someone that watches jersey shore block their phone number and block them from facebook.
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