"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Approach, game, close.
Make a move. FVCK, enjoy.
Drama or no interest. Move on to the next.
That's it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Spot on brahTheGambino said:
It doesn't take logic to love.
zekko
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I agree, I've known some women who were very highly skilled at manipulating men. It's probably not that hard though, when you have the tools (they're playing on their beauty and the natural effect it has on males). Takes some ruthlessness to pull it off though.Jack89 said:
BraddH
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Are there women who can think logically on matters of feelings?
Are there women who understand what they can do with their bodies, but still think the brains are important as well?
Are there women who will legitimaly love someone for what he is and not for what he makes HER feel?
I personally, have not met one! I have met smart women, yes, but they still have problems!
We men do too have problems, but we are not all the same! Someone can be nice, while someone else can be jerk. Someone can have some personality disorders while someone else can have something completely different. I have not seen a common problem in all of men, as it happens with women.
I've never watched it, but I get the impression that's what Jersey Shore is all about.
Actually, what's even more intriguing is to watch a very intelligent "together" woman caught in a heavy moment of hamster spinning when her femaleness kicks in. Like a hounddog deciding between a treat and barking at the neighbor's cat...head goes back and forth and you can hear the gears turning.
no Jersey Shore is about seeing how many braincells you can have killed and still manage to live.Don_Dom said:
make it a rule now....if you know someone that watches jersey shore block their phone number and block them from facebook.
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