"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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female wingmen!

el torro

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Hey guys!!!!!!!:wave:


Im now a single guy, and thinking of taking my female friend out as a wingman, I’ve heard it can produce better results than with a guy. Does anyone have any tips or techniques? I don’t really see much info on this topic!:down:

Main questions are……Is it best to go out in a group of 3 so that when one of us makes a move the other isn’t on their own?

How could I use my friend to my advantage? Thankfully she’s a good-looking girl so it will show that I have social value but apart from that I can’t think how I could use her, if I get her to approach another girl on my behalf it will show I don’t have the confidence to do it myself.

I could get her to approach the girl while I’m at the bar and have her say to the girl I like…”hey, I think your really pretty and would like my friend” I guess that way it doesn’t show that I’ve asked her to ask for me

What do you dudes think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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From my experience having a woman wingman is great.. but I would take 1 or 2 other MALE friends with you too... so while your girl wingman does her thing, you will be having a good time with ur guy friends... and then once she is comfortable with the potential girls that ur after you come strolling along with your friends and go up to her and say something like "oh hey there you are! Who are your new friends?", or something along those lines... keep chilled and relaxed, and above all, just have a good time and dont make your main focus on the potential girls.

Hope this helped, soz for rushed reply I'm trying to multitask here :crazy:
 

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Great advice dude! cheers, will try that one! I think the female wingman is a great idea because it eliminates the competition and shows social value.

Anyone else got any funny wingman stories or tips?
 

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el torro,

This is a great strategy, and the fact your friend is attractive is an added bonus that will definitely work in your favor :up: Keep in mind the incentive for her (if she is single) will be to meet guys while helping you. It is a mutually beneficial arrangement.

My friends and I worked with a decent wingwoman about a year ago, but every once in a while she would get really drunk, become raucous, and then the evening was shifted from having fun and picking up women to watching her back.
 
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