"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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female wingmen!

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Hey guys!!!!!!!:wave:


Im now a single guy, and thinking of taking my female friend out as a wingman, I’ve heard it can produce better results than with a guy. Does anyone have any tips or techniques? I don’t really see much info on this topic!:down:

Main questions are……Is it best to go out in a group of 3 so that when one of us makes a move the other isn’t on their own?

How could I use my friend to my advantage? Thankfully she’s a good-looking girl so it will show that I have social value but apart from that I can’t think how I could use her, if I get her to approach another girl on my behalf it will show I don’t have the confidence to do it myself.

I could get her to approach the girl while I’m at the bar and have her say to the girl I like…”hey, I think your really pretty and would like my friend” I guess that way it doesn’t show that I’ve asked her to ask for me

What do you dudes think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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From my experience having a woman wingman is great.. but I would take 1 or 2 other MALE friends with you too... so while your girl wingman does her thing, you will be having a good time with ur guy friends... and then once she is comfortable with the potential girls that ur after you come strolling along with your friends and go up to her and say something like "oh hey there you are! Who are your new friends?", or something along those lines... keep chilled and relaxed, and above all, just have a good time and dont make your main focus on the potential girls.

Hope this helped, soz for rushed reply I'm trying to multitask here :crazy:
 
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Great advice dude! cheers, will try that one! I think the female wingman is a great idea because it eliminates the competition and shows social value.

Anyone else got any funny wingman stories or tips?
 
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el torro,

This is a great strategy, and the fact your friend is attractive is an added bonus that will definitely work in your favor :up: Keep in mind the incentive for her (if she is single) will be to meet guys while helping you. It is a mutually beneficial arrangement.

My friends and I worked with a decent wingwoman about a year ago, but every once in a while she would get really drunk, become raucous, and then the evening was shifted from having fun and picking up women to watching her back.
 
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