"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Female sex toys = competition?

faeyt

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Just curious, because I admittedly only recently lost my virginity and I don't know many females who talk about this.
If a girl uses sex toys like dildos that are...really large...would they not be as pleasured by an actual man?
I mean I know there's obvious advantages with an actual human being having sex with you, but there's no effing way I can compare to some of the toys this girl has shown me, it's huge...
If I find out one day she has sex with some huge black guy on the side my first reaction would simply be understanding, jesus.

edit: she just sent a picture of her newest one. It's massive and it has fking rotating beads and ****...my penis does not come with features other than 'upsize', 'downsize', and 'discharge'.

edit #2: if a girl fully says she's masturbating right before you're supposed to see her...that's not a very good sign is it?
curse you, dildo makers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Peaks&Valleys

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dude, don't know where to begin with you. Anytime a chick is masturbating and thinking about you.....you're good. Whether or not she's full of sh1t or not is your call. My experience had been they're just horny like the rest of us. Who cares about the size of the dildo?? Is your weiner really that small that you have to worry about it? Even if it is fvck it. You have something that dildo ain't got. YOU. a man with many talents. Just fvck her dude, seriously.
 

rhythmic

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You're trapped inside your own mind. Stop focusing on what she's had up her and focus on being the best thing that's been there...
 

zinc4

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you turn her around on your bed and use it to finger her and then make her do it herself to watch it and then bang her right after.....it's a good thing
 

casaanova

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A dildo will never compare to the real thing, and women know it. It may be bigger, but they control it - the dildo doesn't control THEM. Dominance is a key ingredient of sex


And as an aside, I honestly don't think a lot women use dildos (recreationally) that often - why use a dildo when you can literally get the real thing anytime you want?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Epimanes

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I don't think sex toys are competition. Women are emotional creatures and there is no emotion in a dildo. Sure it may get some attention but really women want the emotional connection more so than just getting off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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