Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Female sex toys = competition?

faeyt

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Just curious, because I admittedly only recently lost my virginity and I don't know many females who talk about this.
If a girl uses sex toys like dildos that are...really large...would they not be as pleasured by an actual man?
I mean I know there's obvious advantages with an actual human being having sex with you, but there's no effing way I can compare to some of the toys this girl has shown me, it's huge...
If I find out one day she has sex with some huge black guy on the side my first reaction would simply be understanding, jesus.

edit: she just sent a picture of her newest one. It's massive and it has fking rotating beads and ****...my penis does not come with features other than 'upsize', 'downsize', and 'discharge'.

edit #2: if a girl fully says she's masturbating right before you're supposed to see her...that's not a very good sign is it?
curse you, dildo makers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Peaks&Valleys

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dude, don't know where to begin with you. Anytime a chick is masturbating and thinking about you.....you're good. Whether or not she's full of sh1t or not is your call. My experience had been they're just horny like the rest of us. Who cares about the size of the dildo?? Is your weiner really that small that you have to worry about it? Even if it is fvck it. You have something that dildo ain't got. YOU. a man with many talents. Just fvck her dude, seriously.
 

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You're trapped inside your own mind. Stop focusing on what she's had up her and focus on being the best thing that's been there...
 

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you turn her around on your bed and use it to finger her and then make her do it herself to watch it and then bang her right after.....it's a good thing
 

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A dildo will never compare to the real thing, and women know it. It may be bigger, but they control it - the dildo doesn't control THEM. Dominance is a key ingredient of sex


And as an aside, I honestly don't think a lot women use dildos (recreationally) that often - why use a dildo when you can literally get the real thing anytime you want?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Epimanes

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I don't think sex toys are competition. Women are emotional creatures and there is no emotion in a dildo. Sure it may get some attention but really women want the emotional connection more so than just getting off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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