"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Female sex toys = competition?

faeyt

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Just curious, because I admittedly only recently lost my virginity and I don't know many females who talk about this.
If a girl uses sex toys like dildos that are...really large...would they not be as pleasured by an actual man?
I mean I know there's obvious advantages with an actual human being having sex with you, but there's no effing way I can compare to some of the toys this girl has shown me, it's huge...
If I find out one day she has sex with some huge black guy on the side my first reaction would simply be understanding, jesus.

edit: she just sent a picture of her newest one. It's massive and it has fking rotating beads and ****...my penis does not come with features other than 'upsize', 'downsize', and 'discharge'.

edit #2: if a girl fully says she's masturbating right before you're supposed to see her...that's not a very good sign is it?
curse you, dildo makers.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Peaks&Valleys

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dude, don't know where to begin with you. Anytime a chick is masturbating and thinking about you.....you're good. Whether or not she's full of sh1t or not is your call. My experience had been they're just horny like the rest of us. Who cares about the size of the dildo?? Is your weiner really that small that you have to worry about it? Even if it is fvck it. You have something that dildo ain't got. YOU. a man with many talents. Just fvck her dude, seriously.
 

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You're trapped inside your own mind. Stop focusing on what she's had up her and focus on being the best thing that's been there...
 

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you turn her around on your bed and use it to finger her and then make her do it herself to watch it and then bang her right after.....it's a good thing
 

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A dildo will never compare to the real thing, and women know it. It may be bigger, but they control it - the dildo doesn't control THEM. Dominance is a key ingredient of sex


And as an aside, I honestly don't think a lot women use dildos (recreationally) that often - why use a dildo when you can literally get the real thing anytime you want?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Epimanes

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I don't think sex toys are competition. Women are emotional creatures and there is no emotion in a dildo. Sure it may get some attention but really women want the emotional connection more so than just getting off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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