“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Female sense of humor?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
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check_mate_kid_uk
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When i tlak to girls, they laugh about anything, sometimes i forget how easy it is and then i go back to talk tog uys and i say something and they just look at me like 'that was lame'
I-am-someone
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Ofcourse, beer and porn are often outside of their world, so they probably won't even get it. Something sexual and toilet humor tend to work quite well though.
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Ever seen a (good) female comedian? Think about it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
check_mate_kid_uk
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Then why can i make girls laugh so easily?Dead Sexington said:It's because women don't have a sense of humour.
Ever seen a (good) female comedian? Think about it.
Dead Sexington said:Ever seen a (good) female comedian? Think about it.
Very true!My question is, why do you feel the need to entertain women?
Just play it natural and do regular ****y funny. When a woman is interested in you, she will laugh with absolutely anything you say or do. Even if it really really isn't funny.
A little like when we pretend to be actually listening to a girl we are interested in going on and on and on during a phone call.
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I-am-someone
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They're usually very men-oriented though.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
most girls are unable to be funny.
its just a different culture.
our brains aren't different but how we grew up certainly was. it takes a lot of time and practice to learn how to really be funny. The culture just does not encourage that for females, and perhaps rightly so. A funny confident guy can get dates almost regardless of what he looks like. A funny confident girl is usually a lesbian.
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I-am-someone
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I remember a show with two hot Dutch showhostesses. They were both challanged to do things outside of their careers, and one of those things was to do stand up comedy.
To be honest, they were actually pretty goddamn funny, and still very hot.
It's an exception, perhaps. But I still saw it