"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Female sense of humor?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
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check_mate_kid_uk
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When i tlak to girls, they laugh about anything, sometimes i forget how easy it is and then i go back to talk tog uys and i say something and they just look at me like 'that was lame'
I-am-someone
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Ofcourse, beer and porn are often outside of their world, so they probably won't even get it. Something sexual and toilet humor tend to work quite well though.
Dead Sexington
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Ever seen a (good) female comedian? Think about it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
check_mate_kid_uk
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Then why can i make girls laugh so easily?Dead Sexington said:It's because women don't have a sense of humour.
Ever seen a (good) female comedian? Think about it.
Dead Sexington said:Ever seen a (good) female comedian? Think about it.
Very true!My question is, why do you feel the need to entertain women?
Just play it natural and do regular ****y funny. When a woman is interested in you, she will laugh with absolutely anything you say or do. Even if it really really isn't funny.
A little like when we pretend to be actually listening to a girl we are interested in going on and on and on during a phone call.
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I-am-someone
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They're usually very men-oriented though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
most girls are unable to be funny.
its just a different culture.
our brains aren't different but how we grew up certainly was. it takes a lot of time and practice to learn how to really be funny. The culture just does not encourage that for females, and perhaps rightly so. A funny confident guy can get dates almost regardless of what he looks like. A funny confident girl is usually a lesbian.
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I-am-someone
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I remember a show with two hot Dutch showhostesses. They were both challanged to do things outside of their careers, and one of those things was to do stand up comedy.
To be honest, they were actually pretty goddamn funny, and still very hot.
It's an exception, perhaps. But I still saw it