"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Female Power Switch Backfires on her!!!!

TruthTeller

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Quick story guys:

When a chic pursues you for weeks, its a good thing. SO u go out on a 1st date, then she sets up the second date two days later (watch out for that). Then she flakes on you thru texting when I asked "So where are we meeting up" She says "SOrry I can't meet up with you today" lol.Ok guys I know I messed up here but here is how I switched it. I text back by saying " ok playa playa" She tried to get a rise out of me trying to have me wrapped around her finger.

But check this out, this is where she really set herself up, I guess she figured its time to put the Ultimate sh1t test on me by not texting, or checking up on me. So what do I do?? I do nothing. Then two weeks later she text me back with lame excuses and try to make me look like the bad guy plus she was checking to see if I was good.

What I'm saying is that if u kno u screwed up a little, you can get it back smoothly if you are on your toes and can see what can happen down the line because I anticipated the stop texting and calls.


Now she was mad a hell for weeks wondering why I didnt chase her down like most guys would do, u kno the calling everyday, texting 3-5 times a day looking for her. SO in other words I bruised her ego and feelings because she thought she had me feeling her hard. Now she is wondering if I even cared for her. WATCH OUT FOR THESE TRAPS BECAUSE SOME CHICS CAN START OUT SMALL FIRST BEFORE THEY GO TO THERE BIG BAG OF TRICKS.

Now when I talk to her I will put her in her place calm and smoothly by calling her out on her sh1t. BUT REMEMBER STAY CONSISTENT FROM THE START BECAUSE GIRLS REMEMBER YOUR ACTION IN THE BEGINNING.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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-and it will be like this forever and ever, an ongoing cycle. Quit playing mindgames is what I'd say, unless this is the kind of thing you want with a girl.
 

bluemanson

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i agree with truthteller. nice thread. girls are all about playing games lol
 

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IceCream said:
-and it will be like this forever and ever, an ongoing cycle. Quit playing mindgames is what I'd say, unless this is the kind of thing you want with a girl.

If you don't want to play the games, you probably won't have much success.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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