"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Female Power Switch Backfires on her!!!!

TruthTeller

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Quick story guys:

When a chic pursues you for weeks, its a good thing. SO u go out on a 1st date, then she sets up the second date two days later (watch out for that). Then she flakes on you thru texting when I asked "So where are we meeting up" She says "SOrry I can't meet up with you today" lol.Ok guys I know I messed up here but here is how I switched it. I text back by saying " ok playa playa" She tried to get a rise out of me trying to have me wrapped around her finger.

But check this out, this is where she really set herself up, I guess she figured its time to put the Ultimate sh1t test on me by not texting, or checking up on me. So what do I do?? I do nothing. Then two weeks later she text me back with lame excuses and try to make me look like the bad guy plus she was checking to see if I was good.

What I'm saying is that if u kno u screwed up a little, you can get it back smoothly if you are on your toes and can see what can happen down the line because I anticipated the stop texting and calls.


Now she was mad a hell for weeks wondering why I didnt chase her down like most guys would do, u kno the calling everyday, texting 3-5 times a day looking for her. SO in other words I bruised her ego and feelings because she thought she had me feeling her hard. Now she is wondering if I even cared for her. WATCH OUT FOR THESE TRAPS BECAUSE SOME CHICS CAN START OUT SMALL FIRST BEFORE THEY GO TO THERE BIG BAG OF TRICKS.

Now when I talk to her I will put her in her place calm and smoothly by calling her out on her sh1t. BUT REMEMBER STAY CONSISTENT FROM THE START BECAUSE GIRLS REMEMBER YOUR ACTION IN THE BEGINNING.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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-and it will be like this forever and ever, an ongoing cycle. Quit playing mindgames is what I'd say, unless this is the kind of thing you want with a girl.
 

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i agree with truthteller. nice thread. girls are all about playing games lol
 

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IceCream said:
-and it will be like this forever and ever, an ongoing cycle. Quit playing mindgames is what I'd say, unless this is the kind of thing you want with a girl.

If you don't want to play the games, you probably won't have much success.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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