"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Female Power Switch Backfires on her!!!!

TruthTeller

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Quick story guys:

When a chic pursues you for weeks, its a good thing. SO u go out on a 1st date, then she sets up the second date two days later (watch out for that). Then she flakes on you thru texting when I asked "So where are we meeting up" She says "SOrry I can't meet up with you today" lol.Ok guys I know I messed up here but here is how I switched it. I text back by saying " ok playa playa" She tried to get a rise out of me trying to have me wrapped around her finger.

But check this out, this is where she really set herself up, I guess she figured its time to put the Ultimate sh1t test on me by not texting, or checking up on me. So what do I do?? I do nothing. Then two weeks later she text me back with lame excuses and try to make me look like the bad guy plus she was checking to see if I was good.

What I'm saying is that if u kno u screwed up a little, you can get it back smoothly if you are on your toes and can see what can happen down the line because I anticipated the stop texting and calls.


Now she was mad a hell for weeks wondering why I didnt chase her down like most guys would do, u kno the calling everyday, texting 3-5 times a day looking for her. SO in other words I bruised her ego and feelings because she thought she had me feeling her hard. Now she is wondering if I even cared for her. WATCH OUT FOR THESE TRAPS BECAUSE SOME CHICS CAN START OUT SMALL FIRST BEFORE THEY GO TO THERE BIG BAG OF TRICKS.

Now when I talk to her I will put her in her place calm and smoothly by calling her out on her sh1t. BUT REMEMBER STAY CONSISTENT FROM THE START BECAUSE GIRLS REMEMBER YOUR ACTION IN THE BEGINNING.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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-and it will be like this forever and ever, an ongoing cycle. Quit playing mindgames is what I'd say, unless this is the kind of thing you want with a girl.
 

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i agree with truthteller. nice thread. girls are all about playing games lol
 

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IceCream said:
-and it will be like this forever and ever, an ongoing cycle. Quit playing mindgames is what I'd say, unless this is the kind of thing you want with a girl.

If you don't want to play the games, you probably won't have much success.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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