Female Perspective

[wifehunter]

I was chatting the other day with one of my friends that is a girl/woman... She hit on me awhile back, but I didn't respond. Only semi attracted (I'm picky) to her, she's in a 8yr LTR, so we are just good friends.

Anyway, got to talking about all the plates I'm seeing (6, as of today) and told her about the mixed signals ladies send out... She said, just ignore them! I told her I'm doing just that, and that ladies are chasing me as a result! Anyway, I think it's it great to have some decent advice from the other side! Stay positive guys!

 

[parkthebus]

Good advice from is a woman is beyond rare.

 

[wifehunter]

Good advice from is a woman is beyond rare.

Rare, indeed! Too bad, she'll be out of my life soon... she's changing jobs

 

[King of Action]

You're doing something good if you're spinning 6 plates. I think what your friend said is right! Ignore it. Be who you are, enjoy your life, accomplish your goals....etc. Don't try to be fake to one plate. Then to the next plate you faking to her liking. Then with another plate and adjusting her style. Be 100% you! Most of all, don't be afraid to say NO! Especially when your time isn't flexible enough.

When you can say NO (of course in a respectful way)....it give you time to pick who and when you want to go out and do things with.

 

[wifehunter]

You're doing something good if you're spinning 6 plates.

I live near a college, and a shopping center. This place is crawling with beautiful ladies! It's crazy, I talk to gorgeous ladies, everywhere I go!