"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was chatting the other day with one of my friends that is a girl/woman... She hit on me awhile back, but I didn't respond. Only semi attracted (I'm picky) to her, she's in a 8yr LTR, so we are just good friends.

Anyway, got to talking about all the plates I'm seeing (6, as of today) and told her about the mixed signals ladies send out... She said, just ignore them! I told her I'm doing just that, and that ladies are chasing me as a result! Anyway, I think it's it great to have some decent advice from the other side! Stay positive guys!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're doing something good if you're spinning 6 plates. I think what your friend said is right! Ignore it. Be who you are, enjoy your life, accomplish your goals....etc. Don't try to be fake to one plate. Then to the next plate you faking to her liking. Then with another plate and adjusting her style. Be 100% you! Most of all, don't be afraid to say NO! Especially when your time isn't flexible enough.

When you can say NO (of course in a respectful way)....it give you time to pick who and when you want to go out and do things with.
 
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King of Action said:
You're doing something good if you're spinning 6 plates.
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I live near a college, and a shopping center. This place is crawling with beautiful ladies! It's crazy, I talk to gorgeous ladies, everywhere I go!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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