"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was chatting the other day with one of my friends that is a girl/woman... She hit on me awhile back, but I didn't respond. Only semi attracted (I'm picky) to her, she's in a 8yr LTR, so we are just good friends.

Anyway, got to talking about all the plates I'm seeing (6, as of today) and told her about the mixed signals ladies send out... She said, just ignore them! I told her I'm doing just that, and that ladies are chasing me as a result! Anyway, I think it's it great to have some decent advice from the other side! Stay positive guys!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're doing something good if you're spinning 6 plates. I think what your friend said is right! Ignore it. Be who you are, enjoy your life, accomplish your goals....etc. Don't try to be fake to one plate. Then to the next plate you faking to her liking. Then with another plate and adjusting her style. Be 100% you! Most of all, don't be afraid to say NO! Especially when your time isn't flexible enough.

When you can say NO (of course in a respectful way)....it give you time to pick who and when you want to go out and do things with.
 
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King of Action said:
You're doing something good if you're spinning 6 plates.
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I live near a college, and a shopping center. This place is crawling with beautiful ladies! It's crazy, I talk to gorgeous ladies, everywhere I go!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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