"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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female managers are more critical than male counterparts?

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do you guys notice female managers tend to be more critical toward male employees ?

I had conversations with several of my buddies who concur with my view. Female managers are more more picky about an employee performance. They are like shadows over your shoulder looking for every mistake you make.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I HATE female bosses!

Working for them is just as bad as dating them. If you make an error, they are all over you. If you do well, they think you're after their job and get nasty. (And OH YES! Their monthy cycle comes into play in terms of how nasty they are going to be.)

Guys are pretty steady unless they are getting stress from upper management.
 

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When you give power to a kid he always abuse of it because he is not made to have it,same works for women.
 

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Generalizations and Stereotypes yay!

I've had three female bosses. 1st. She was not management material, didn't know what she was doing, could be a straight up harpy *****. 2nd. Laid back black woman, the only problem she kept hitting on me, she knew her job and made sure you knew yours and did it. 3rd and current. Very competent , kinda quiet, kinda non confrontational, very smart. Let's us do what we want as long as we meet deadlines and don't cause her problems.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I met female manager who is dumb as megan fox. She has no formal education except for HS. She doesn't know IT yet some morons put her in charge of IT dept. It was a disaster.

She was a petty person. She was jealous of anyone who had higher education than hers.
 

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picard said:
I met female manager who is dumb as megan fox. She has no formal education except for HS.
WHen they have no education (manner of speaking, nothing wrong with a hs diploma) they make up for it with the worst attitude you can imagine...there are exceptions of course.
 

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No, in fact I find female managers to be understanding, nice, and competent.
 

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Are they any more worse than incompetent/arrogant/nitpicky male bosses? Come on guys. Most of my female bosses are pretty laid back as well....it all depends on the individual.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was told by a co-worker that was moving onto better things to never ever work for a woman boss. Even his wife agreed adamantly. It was hilarious at the time, but also true. From what I saw, people who worked for women bosses seemed to be more stressed and it appeared as though they were worried they could be canned at any random moment for any random reason.

Obviously this isn't true of ALL women because there are exceptions and not to mention there are men that are just huge b1tches, but something to keep in mind.
 

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iqqi said:
And costs you opportunity.
pshaw, who wants to work for the average hypercritical, constantly on her period, nitpicky, poorly educated, petty woman boss anyway? :p
 

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the one or two gay/lesbian bosses ive worked with or under have been fVcking terrible
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't care if the woman has HS education. However when her education level is far below the job position, the woman intellectual short comings show up clearly. It really irritates me that management promote stupid women to managerial position.
 

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Female managers are more prone to emotional mood swings and irrational worries which sometimes they take out on subordinates. Not to say that men don't do this as well. It's usually if they're under pressure to show results but have to delegate the tasks to subordinates. Worse still, sometimes they are unaware of the process to accomplish a task and therefore can't appreciate the fact that sometimes it requires more time or more resources.

The best way to handle female managers is take her out of the decision making process by knowing her mood swings. This is a subtle art that takes time to master.
 
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