"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Female friends?

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jeffthechef

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I have many female friends at school and some other schools. The problem is that i often have trouble getting their numbers/aim/etc so i can talk to them out of school and to set up meetings on the weekends. I don't want them to think i'm hitting on them when i ask for their number/etc, so how do i do it naturally? Tips, examples, advice would be appreciated..Thanks:D

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I've seen some openers posted that let the lady know how beautiful she is..but some people say you shouldn't let her know she's beautiful because you're giving up your power..Which is it? Or perhaps openers are pointless?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WalkingStick

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don't worry about them thinking you're hitting on them. Just ask for it if you want it.

Never call a girl ugly, but don't worship her looks either. Someone on the forums put it this way "Yeah, you're hot, but so what?" Let her know you think she's attractive, but never let her think that she has you.

It might be best to avoid gaming them altogether. If you're already friendzoned, you dont need to be nervous about asking their info, but you won't be able to make progess anyway.
 
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