Female friends?

[jeffthechef]

I have many female friends at school and some other schools. The problem is that i often have trouble getting their numbers/aim/etc so i can talk to them out of school and to set up meetings on the weekends. I don't want them to think i'm hitting on them when i ask for their number/etc, so how do i do it naturally? Tips, examples, advice would be appreciated..Thanks

P.S.
I've seen some openers posted that let the lady know how beautiful she is..but some people say you shouldn't let her know she's beautiful because you're giving up your power..Which is it? Or perhaps openers are pointless?

 

[WalkingStick]

don't worry about them thinking you're hitting on them. Just ask for it if you want it.

Never call a girl ugly, but don't worship her looks either. Someone on the forums put it this way "Yeah, you're hot, but so what?" Let her know you think she's attractive, but never let her think that she has you.

It might be best to avoid gaming them altogether. If you're already friendzoned, you dont need to be nervous about asking their info, but you won't be able to make progess anyway.

 

[intrextrovert]

If you're already friends just ask.