"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Female friends?

jeffthechef

Master Don Juan
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I have many female friends at school and some other schools. The problem is that i often have trouble getting their numbers/aim/etc so i can talk to them out of school and to set up meetings on the weekends. I don't want them to think i'm hitting on them when i ask for their number/etc, so how do i do it naturally? Tips, examples, advice would be appreciated..Thanks:D

P.S.
I've seen some openers posted that let the lady know how beautiful she is..but some people say you shouldn't let her know she's beautiful because you're giving up your power..Which is it? Or perhaps openers are pointless?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WalkingStick

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don't worry about them thinking you're hitting on them. Just ask for it if you want it.

Never call a girl ugly, but don't worship her looks either. Someone on the forums put it this way "Yeah, you're hot, but so what?" Let her know you think she's attractive, but never let her think that she has you.

It might be best to avoid gaming them altogether. If you're already friendzoned, you dont need to be nervous about asking their info, but you won't be able to make progess anyway.
 
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