"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Female friends?

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jeffthechef

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I have many female friends at school and some other schools. The problem is that i often have trouble getting their numbers/aim/etc so i can talk to them out of school and to set up meetings on the weekends. I don't want them to think i'm hitting on them when i ask for their number/etc, so how do i do it naturally? Tips, examples, advice would be appreciated..Thanks:D

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I've seen some openers posted that let the lady know how beautiful she is..but some people say you shouldn't let her know she's beautiful because you're giving up your power..Which is it? Or perhaps openers are pointless?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WalkingStick

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don't worry about them thinking you're hitting on them. Just ask for it if you want it.

Never call a girl ugly, but don't worship her looks either. Someone on the forums put it this way "Yeah, you're hot, but so what?" Let her know you think she's attractive, but never let her think that she has you.

It might be best to avoid gaming them altogether. If you're already friendzoned, you dont need to be nervous about asking their info, but you won't be able to make progess anyway.
 
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