"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This female im real cool with always look out for me. I bought her lunch and she does it for me as well. She married with kids so im not trying to mess with her just to throw that out there but I become cool with one of her best friends which it aint nothing going on with me n her either. Today I was playing with her about asking for her chips and she laughed n said hell no. She then offer to buy me some chips which I thought to myself I was just playing but I accepted the offer and she told me to count my days on her being generous. I wonder was that a joke or do yall think she meant that and why.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blood in the water' makes reference to the sharks incredible ability to smell blood in water... In the same way, a horny woman bleeds money.
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Oh ok I see well we been cool and she always look out for me. Like I said I was just playing when I asked her for her chips and I laughed but she offered to buy me some and made the statement count your days of me being generous. Im like huh
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rocnavy said:
Oh ok I see well we been cool and she always look out for me. Like I said I was just playing when I asked her for her chips and I laughed but she offered to buy me some and made the statement count your days of me being generous. Im like huh
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She is inviting you to push her generosity, do it playfully, dont be direct
 
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Im trying to keep it playful. Hell she even trusted me to move her rental suv to another parking spot.
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Ok she might be trying to trap u lol careful, u dont want a baby with a person who is married and behaves this way, having fun is fine
 
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Friends do nice things for one another. That said, see the thread about "Just-a-Friend". You can't take one comment out of context and deduce the motivation and meaning....

SO in a relationship there is a thing Athol Kay calls "Skittleing" Basically his wife likes Skittles candy. They are cheap, less than a dollar. Occasionally and infrequently he will get her a bag of Skittles without being asked as a little love token. The key here is not the value but the gesture.

It's like two guys buying each other beers at the bar. There is no score kept you just alternate occasionally.

So one day before lunch, surprise her with a bag of chips, un less that is a big ask on your part financially.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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2Rocky said:
Friends do nice things for one another. That said, see the thread about "Just-a-Friend". You can't take one comment out of context and deduce the motivation and meaning....

SO in a relationship there is a thing Athol Kay calls "Skittleing" Basically his wife likes Skittles candy. They are cheap, less than a dollar. Occasionally and infrequently he will get her a bag of Skittles without being asked as a little love token. The key here is not the value but the gesture.

It's like two guys buying each other beers at the bar. There is no score kept you just alternate occasionally.

So one day before lunch, surprise her with a bag of chips, un less that is a big ask on your part financially.
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If OP was game familiar he'd of wrapped this a long time ago or at least come to a choice of should or shouldn't.

She displays a clear lack of boundaries almost across the board, this is the woman thatll eat your nut then give her husband a french
 
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