"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This female im real cool with always look out for me. I bought her lunch and she does it for me as well. She married with kids so im not trying to mess with her just to throw that out there but I become cool with one of her best friends which it aint nothing going on with me n her either. Today I was playing with her about asking for her chips and she laughed n said hell no. She then offer to buy me some chips which I thought to myself I was just playing but I accepted the offer and she told me to count my days on her being generous. I wonder was that a joke or do yall think she meant that and why.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Blood in the water' makes reference to the sharks incredible ability to smell blood in water... In the same way, a horny woman bleeds money.
Oh ok I see well we been cool and she always look out for me. Like I said I was just playing when I asked her for her chips and I laughed but she offered to buy me some and made the statement count your days of me being generous. Im like huh
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh ok I see well we been cool and she always look out for me. Like I said I was just playing when I asked her for her chips and I laughed but she offered to buy me some and made the statement count your days of me being generous. Im like huh
She is inviting you to push her generosity, do it playfully, dont be direct
 

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Im trying to keep it playful. Hell she even trusted me to move her rental suv to another parking spot.
Ok she might be trying to trap u lol careful, u dont want a baby with a person who is married and behaves this way, having fun is fine
 

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Friends do nice things for one another. That said, see the thread about "Just-a-Friend". You can't take one comment out of context and deduce the motivation and meaning....

SO in a relationship there is a thing Athol Kay calls "Skittleing" Basically his wife likes Skittles candy. They are cheap, less than a dollar. Occasionally and infrequently he will get her a bag of Skittles without being asked as a little love token. The key here is not the value but the gesture.

It's like two guys buying each other beers at the bar. There is no score kept you just alternate occasionally.

So one day before lunch, surprise her with a bag of chips, un less that is a big ask on your part financially.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Friends do nice things for one another. That said, see the thread about "Just-a-Friend". You can't take one comment out of context and deduce the motivation and meaning....

SO in a relationship there is a thing Athol Kay calls "Skittleing" Basically his wife likes Skittles candy. They are cheap, less than a dollar. Occasionally and infrequently he will get her a bag of Skittles without being asked as a little love token. The key here is not the value but the gesture.

It's like two guys buying each other beers at the bar. There is no score kept you just alternate occasionally.

So one day before lunch, surprise her with a bag of chips, un less that is a big ask on your part financially.
If OP was game familiar he'd of wrapped this a long time ago or at least come to a choice of should or shouldn't.

She displays a clear lack of boundaries almost across the board, this is the woman thatll eat your nut then give her husband a french
 
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