“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Female Competitiveness

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Female Competitiveness

So, women like to compete with each other for a guy. At some point, one of the girls is going to be upset that the guy isn't as into her, and will be jealous of the attention the other girl is getting. She won't want any more contact between him and the other girl.

Apparently, this is the basis for new friendships between women.

My question is, if the newly befriended girl is interested in the guy already, how much of an influence will the jealous girl be on her? Can they be talked out of their interest, or is the competition so obvious that she may even be more attracted to the guy?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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poorly worded, but a very good question. This type of c0ckblocking has probably affected me recently, altho it's impossible to know for sure.

i'll await the thoughts of others on what strategies to employ.
 
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How necessery is it to say it's poorly worded man? You say it's a good question, thanks for that. Someone else will see it and think "coudn't have said it better myself".
 
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Drama is BS, but frankly I know some chicks are going to be talking **** and I want to know how to counter-act it, or if I even need to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drama is BS, but frankly I know some chicks are going to be talking **** and I want to know how to counter-act it, or if I even need to.
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If a chick can influence another chick in losing interest in you, that chick wasn't that into you to begin with.

Don't try to counter-act or get into the whole female mindset and worry about what they are doing. Your time should be spend in increasing the interest level's of the chick you are interested in and not worry about the rest.
 
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You're right, I figure if a chick is so easily influenced, then she's not worth my time anyway.

I'll work on not letting this crap get to me. Serves no purpose.
 
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If a chick can influence another chick in losing interest in you, that chick wasn't that into you to begin with.
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That's nice to say and there is some truth to it, but we all know that in reality, c0ckblocking can seriously f*ck up your game. A chick can be into you pretty well, but if there's someone opposed to your seduction, they often can get in the way pretty effectively.

I agree that there may be no true solution in this situation, tho.
 
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