"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Female Attraction

The Duke

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We see on here that there are plenty ways to attract women, everybody has what works best for them. What works for them, might be different for you and varies with the woman.

What is your most powerful tool for attracting women? Money, looks, status, confidence, personality, charm, etc.

Mine would have to be my personality that comes out during initial conversations. I connect really well with women and I'd say better than most guys. I've seen it so many times in my social circle. I've inadvertently had male friends get jealous when their girlfriends enjoy talking to me. Exgf's saw me as dangerous because they realized what I was capable of because it worked on them! If I can get a 1st date, its very rare that I don't get a 2nd, 3rd dates. Many times I've seen them become more and more attracted to me as the conversations continue. After a while you learn what triggers their attraction and use it to your advantage. Its all about how you make them feel.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lizardking82

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I would say style + writing/talking ability + strong frame of mind. It is not easy to put it into words, you know. But when it works, it works.

I believe some guys are naturally good with women and it is not so relevant to looks or money how most people believe. It is like any other field of life. Some people are cut to be photographers without trying much, others might try for years and they're just not the guy for the thing.
 

MrWood

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before meeting:
eye contact/smile/flirt|situational-comment

after meeting:
passion and confidence
 
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