"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Female Attraction

The Duke

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We see on here that there are plenty ways to attract women, everybody has what works best for them. What works for them, might be different for you and varies with the woman.

What is your most powerful tool for attracting women? Money, looks, status, confidence, personality, charm, etc.

Mine would have to be my personality that comes out during initial conversations. I connect really well with women and I'd say better than most guys. I've seen it so many times in my social circle. I've inadvertently had male friends get jealous when their girlfriends enjoy talking to me. Exgf's saw me as dangerous because they realized what I was capable of because it worked on them! If I can get a 1st date, its very rare that I don't get a 2nd, 3rd dates. Many times I've seen them become more and more attracted to me as the conversations continue. After a while you learn what triggers their attraction and use it to your advantage. Its all about how you make them feel.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lizardking82

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I would say style + writing/talking ability + strong frame of mind. It is not easy to put it into words, you know. But when it works, it works.

I believe some guys are naturally good with women and it is not so relevant to looks or money how most people believe. It is like any other field of life. Some people are cut to be photographers without trying much, others might try for years and they're just not the guy for the thing.
 

MrWood

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before meeting:
eye contact/smile/flirt|situational-comment

after meeting:
passion and confidence
 
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