Hello. I'm Bishop, though I see that name's already been taken by a few on the board. Then again, with 10k members, I suppose that shouldn't come as a shocker to me. In any events, here is my situation as it stands now.
I've never had a problem with girls, with respects to talking to them. However, the problem is that the most gorgeous of these fine females view me as a friend - in fact, last night while playing drinking games at my wingman's apartment with one such lady I knew on a passing level, but (obviously) now at a more "friendly" one, she proceeded to remove all of her clothes and do a dance for the two of us - then after putting on her clothes, tell me "did you know that we were destined to be friends?" Not exactly my highest praise.
It's been this way for quite some time. I'll be the "best friend" of hottie upon hottie, and sometimes move into the endzone - however, with these friends, that is a rarity. I'm not sure if it's my openess regarding what I want that turns them away, or if it's my look - though they say I'm cute, I'm not sure if that's because they're friends or if it's actually truth.
I don't have a problem getting a girl into bed (at least, I have no problem with trying), so long as she's someone I haven't known for very long and don't have many friends in common with. My proudest moment was "moving in" to a house leased to 5 girls - then proceeding to make my way down the line, with all but 1 of them (she was unattractive). She then turned all 4 of them against me. It still didn't take away from the fact that I did it, though.
I'm more physical than anything else, in that I'd much rather have a skinny girl - around 95 to 110 (110 is my cut-off) - in the sack than any other. Personality isn't that important, so long as she's got a good body and cute face. The problem... and I suppose I've said the word "problem" about twice two many times now, is that in the past few months, the total number of times I've had sex has been 3. In four months. Three different girls, mind you, but none of them repeats - with one, I believe it was my fault, in that I tried too hard to make it into a relationship, believing that was what I wanted (all of my female friends claim that I'm a male *****, a fact not entirely untruthful in and of itself...)
I don't know what to make of it. I gave up having sex last weekend, but it lasted all of 5 days before I gave in - and this was to a girl I wasn't particularly proud of. I'm sure you all have had the type, where you'd do her but wouldn't brag about it. Now, I've decided I don't want a LTR at all, but would instead rather rack up on my list of names... to be truthful, though, there is no list, as I've forgotten a good number of them. Though there are brief flashbacks to ones I can't recall every now and then.
I've checked out the forums, and the DJ Bible / Boot Camp. I've got no problem with maintaining eye contact with a hot girl, or of saying hello. In fact, I've been doing this (just not 2 seconds after they break contact) for some time now where I work, at A&F. (Yes, I know that there has been some saying that there are flamers at Abercrombie, but I can refute that - only 1/3rd of the guys at my store are... ) In any case, I'm the stock manager, so I'm not able to actually go talk to the customers unless I get bored or need to do something up front, so I'll just have to go walk around on my breaks or something.
Okay, enough of this. I believe I'll bookmark this page and update it each week that I complete a section of my "Boot Camp", making a notation of what all has happened. Hopefully this post wasn't too long for everyone, and because your eyes are probably sore I'll add in a few pictures of a few of the girls who I'm "friends" with - though in most cases, nothing more. If you've got any advice that you can give me in regards to anything that I've posted, feel more than free to comment. Also, great forums you guys have here. I look forward to being a part of it.
I've never had a problem with girls, with respects to talking to them. However, the problem is that the most gorgeous of these fine females view me as a friend - in fact, last night while playing drinking games at my wingman's apartment with one such lady I knew on a passing level, but (obviously) now at a more "friendly" one, she proceeded to remove all of her clothes and do a dance for the two of us - then after putting on her clothes, tell me "did you know that we were destined to be friends?" Not exactly my highest praise.
It's been this way for quite some time. I'll be the "best friend" of hottie upon hottie, and sometimes move into the endzone - however, with these friends, that is a rarity. I'm not sure if it's my openess regarding what I want that turns them away, or if it's my look - though they say I'm cute, I'm not sure if that's because they're friends or if it's actually truth.
I don't have a problem getting a girl into bed (at least, I have no problem with trying), so long as she's someone I haven't known for very long and don't have many friends in common with. My proudest moment was "moving in" to a house leased to 5 girls - then proceeding to make my way down the line, with all but 1 of them (she was unattractive). She then turned all 4 of them against me. It still didn't take away from the fact that I did it, though.
I'm more physical than anything else, in that I'd much rather have a skinny girl - around 95 to 110 (110 is my cut-off) - in the sack than any other. Personality isn't that important, so long as she's got a good body and cute face. The problem... and I suppose I've said the word "problem" about twice two many times now, is that in the past few months, the total number of times I've had sex has been 3. In four months. Three different girls, mind you, but none of them repeats - with one, I believe it was my fault, in that I tried too hard to make it into a relationship, believing that was what I wanted (all of my female friends claim that I'm a male *****, a fact not entirely untruthful in and of itself...)
I don't know what to make of it. I gave up having sex last weekend, but it lasted all of 5 days before I gave in - and this was to a girl I wasn't particularly proud of. I'm sure you all have had the type, where you'd do her but wouldn't brag about it. Now, I've decided I don't want a LTR at all, but would instead rather rack up on my list of names... to be truthful, though, there is no list, as I've forgotten a good number of them. Though there are brief flashbacks to ones I can't recall every now and then.
I've checked out the forums, and the DJ Bible / Boot Camp. I've got no problem with maintaining eye contact with a hot girl, or of saying hello. In fact, I've been doing this (just not 2 seconds after they break contact) for some time now where I work, at A&F. (Yes, I know that there has been some saying that there are flamers at Abercrombie, but I can refute that - only 1/3rd of the guys at my store are...
) In any case, I'm the stock manager, so I'm not able to actually go talk to the customers unless I get bored or need to do something up front, so I'll just have to go walk around on my breaks or something. Okay, enough of this. I believe I'll bookmark this page and update it each week that I complete a section of my "Boot Camp", making a notation of what all has happened. Hopefully this post wasn't too long for everyone, and because your eyes are probably sore I'll add in a few pictures of a few of the girls who I'm "friends" with - though in most cases, nothing more. If you've got any advice that you can give me in regards to anything that I've posted, feel more than free to comment. Also, great forums you guys have here. I look forward to being a part of it.
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