There’s this girl — don’t really know her — at my Uni who stares intently at my face when I walk by her. For instance, one time I leaving the uni rec, and saw (out of my periphery) her jet towards the exit and when I walked past she just stared. Also, on three different occasions she was with another guy, but kept being obnoxious and laughing loudly. She also sometimes comes near where I’m stationed in the gym and hovers there but doesn’t say anything. What’s her deal?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fellas (and gals), I need help interpreting...
- Thread starter LGomes23
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
AttackFormation
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Have you thought about.................. asking her?
2Rocky
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"Hi, I'm Gomes. I've seen you around campus a few times. What's your name? "
"Well Lulubelle, I'm headed to class right now. I'd love to continue this conversation Why don't i meet up with you this afternoon after class at the Student Union. "
"Great I'll text you when I get out of class. Here put your number in my phone."
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I'd tease the sh1t out of her after all that. Something like this:
YOU: Hey I saw you checking me out all the time.
HB: No, no I didn't.
YOU: Be serious, you were checking my ass/ears(whatever stupid think you can think of). And looking right into my eyes.
HB: Oh come one, I didn't.
YOU: Haha, you're funny, you're doing it again!
HB: Oh you...You're so baaad!
YOU: Hmm let's go out sometimes, gimme your number. I promise I'll let you stare at me some more.
Im writing this assuming you're attracted to this girl, of course.
YOU: Hey I saw you checking me out all the time.
HB: No, no I didn't.
YOU: Be serious, you were checking my ass/ears(whatever stupid think you can think of). And looking right into my eyes.
HB: Oh come one, I didn't.
YOU: Haha, you're funny, you're doing it again!
HB: Oh you...You're so baaad!
YOU: Hmm let's go out sometimes, gimme your number. I promise I'll let you stare at me some more.
Im writing this assuming you're attracted to this girl, of course.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
She's done more guys than she can remember and is obsessed with figuring out whether or not you were one of them.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.