There’s this girl — don’t really know her — at my Uni who stares intently at my face when I walk by her. For instance, one time I leaving the uni rec, and saw (out of my periphery) her jet towards the exit and when I walked past she just stared. Also, on three different occasions she was with another guy, but kept being obnoxious and laughing loudly. She also sometimes comes near where I’m stationed in the gym and hovers there but doesn’t say anything. What’s her deal?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Fellas (and gals), I need help interpreting...
- Thread starter LGomes23
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Have you thought about.................. asking her?
2Rocky
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"Hi, I'm Gomes. I've seen you around campus a few times. What's your name? "
"Well Lulubelle, I'm headed to class right now. I'd love to continue this conversation Why don't i meet up with you this afternoon after class at the Student Union. "
"Great I'll text you when I get out of class. Here put your number in my phone."
andreihaha
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I'd tease the sh1t out of her after all that. Something like this:
YOU: Hey I saw you checking me out all the time.
HB: No, no I didn't.
YOU: Be serious, you were checking my ass/ears(whatever stupid think you can think of). And looking right into my eyes.
HB: Oh come one, I didn't.
YOU: Haha, you're funny, you're doing it again!
HB: Oh you...You're so baaad!
YOU: Hmm let's go out sometimes, gimme your number. I promise I'll let you stare at me some more.
Im writing this assuming you're attracted to this girl, of course.
YOU: Hey I saw you checking me out all the time.
HB: No, no I didn't.
YOU: Be serious, you were checking my ass/ears(whatever stupid think you can think of). And looking right into my eyes.
HB: Oh come one, I didn't.
YOU: Haha, you're funny, you're doing it again!
HB: Oh you...You're so baaad!
YOU: Hmm let's go out sometimes, gimme your number. I promise I'll let you stare at me some more.
Im writing this assuming you're attracted to this girl, of course.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
She's done more guys than she can remember and is obsessed with figuring out whether or not you were one of them.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.