There’s this girl — don’t really know her — at my Uni who stares intently at my face when I walk by her. For instance, one time I leaving the uni rec, and saw (out of my periphery) her jet towards the exit and when I walked past she just stared. Also, on three different occasions she was with another guy, but kept being obnoxious and laughing loudly. She also sometimes comes near where I’m stationed in the gym and hovers there but doesn’t say anything. What’s her deal?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fellas (and gals), I need help interpreting...
- Thread starter LGomes23
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AttackFormation
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Have you thought about.................. asking her?
2Rocky
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"Hi, I'm Gomes. I've seen you around campus a few times. What's your name? "
"Well Lulubelle, I'm headed to class right now. I'd love to continue this conversation Why don't i meet up with you this afternoon after class at the Student Union. "
"Great I'll text you when I get out of class. Here put your number in my phone."
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I'd tease the sh1t out of her after all that. Something like this:
YOU: Hey I saw you checking me out all the time.
HB: No, no I didn't.
YOU: Be serious, you were checking my ass/ears(whatever stupid think you can think of). And looking right into my eyes.
HB: Oh come one, I didn't.
YOU: Haha, you're funny, you're doing it again!
HB: Oh you...You're so baaad!
YOU: Hmm let's go out sometimes, gimme your number. I promise I'll let you stare at me some more.
Im writing this assuming you're attracted to this girl, of course.
YOU: Hey I saw you checking me out all the time.
HB: No, no I didn't.
YOU: Be serious, you were checking my ass/ears(whatever stupid think you can think of). And looking right into my eyes.
HB: Oh come one, I didn't.
YOU: Haha, you're funny, you're doing it again!
HB: Oh you...You're so baaad!
YOU: Hmm let's go out sometimes, gimme your number. I promise I'll let you stare at me some more.
Im writing this assuming you're attracted to this girl, of course.
Bible_Belt
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She's done more guys than she can remember and is obsessed with figuring out whether or not you were one of them.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.