"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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feelings??

Smileyz

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Sup bro's

recently i was introduced to a hb'7. i did good as long as icould remember it..mirroring,kino,c+f and all...but aside that.

it came to a point in our conversation when was talking about feelings?? you know? like..theres this guy..he likes me and i like him too..and all that cheezy ****?? she talks to you as if ur close or something.. does this happen to you guys?? what do you do during this types of situation..


So...i did nothing else but walked away.

"See ya,,i'd rather be doing something else than to listen to you"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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Perfect reaction.

I'm guessing it's that time she's deciding wether you're a friend or a mate and you just passed.
 

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shes treating you like an emo tampon. good thing you did by walking away! i'd walk away too... these women aren't worth our time :D
 

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shes treating you like an emo tampon. good thing you did by walking away! i'd walk away too... these women aren't worth our time
Yeah, they aren't worth your time if you're only interested in getting laid.

That doesn't mean that you should just say, "Screw 'em" and move on. Friends are good too.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Question: If she asks you what happened, what would you say?

:rolleyes: I'd like to see you get out of this one.
 

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Well, if you're interested in this girl as more than a friend, show her..She's confiding in you to help her with another guy.


I wouldn't necessarily walk away. No matter what she's talking about, it's kinda rude and will make you look like more of a jerk type. The best way to handle this type of situation is to blankly stare off into space and in a sarcastice voice say, "I'm sorry, did you say something?" She'll usually laugh, hit you playfully and make fun of it..Just a fair warning, as much as you think it will help talking to girls about their deep feelings and emotions, it only gets you further into the dreaded friends zone. Keep the convo simple. Keep yourself looking mysterious. Moreover, let her know by kino that you're interested in her for a relationship(if you're looking for one) or sex(if you wanna get laid).

In any case, always try to keep away from these kinds of situations when chicks try it. Your shirt doesn't say Tampax on it does it? Good =)
 

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AFK protector- uhhm..ofcourse i said something before i walked away:) like "uuhmm..ok hey(Looks at celphone with watch) gotta go..see ya tommorow"

AC/DC- heheeheeh i dont know bro.....hah maybe ill tell her my friends needed me or sumthng

great advice guys..thanks!:)
 
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