"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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feelings??

Smileyz

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Sup bro's

recently i was introduced to a hb'7. i did good as long as icould remember it..mirroring,kino,c+f and all...but aside that.

it came to a point in our conversation when was talking about feelings?? you know? like..theres this guy..he likes me and i like him too..and all that cheezy ****?? she talks to you as if ur close or something.. does this happen to you guys?? what do you do during this types of situation..


So...i did nothing else but walked away.

"See ya,,i'd rather be doing something else than to listen to you"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LikRetsam

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Perfect reaction.

I'm guessing it's that time she's deciding wether you're a friend or a mate and you just passed.
 

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shes treating you like an emo tampon. good thing you did by walking away! i'd walk away too... these women aren't worth our time :D
 

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shes treating you like an emo tampon. good thing you did by walking away! i'd walk away too... these women aren't worth our time
Yeah, they aren't worth your time if you're only interested in getting laid.

That doesn't mean that you should just say, "Screw 'em" and move on. Friends are good too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Question: If she asks you what happened, what would you say?

:rolleyes: I'd like to see you get out of this one.
 

Jerky Boi

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Well, if you're interested in this girl as more than a friend, show her..She's confiding in you to help her with another guy.


I wouldn't necessarily walk away. No matter what she's talking about, it's kinda rude and will make you look like more of a jerk type. The best way to handle this type of situation is to blankly stare off into space and in a sarcastice voice say, "I'm sorry, did you say something?" She'll usually laugh, hit you playfully and make fun of it..Just a fair warning, as much as you think it will help talking to girls about their deep feelings and emotions, it only gets you further into the dreaded friends zone. Keep the convo simple. Keep yourself looking mysterious. Moreover, let her know by kino that you're interested in her for a relationship(if you're looking for one) or sex(if you wanna get laid).

In any case, always try to keep away from these kinds of situations when chicks try it. Your shirt doesn't say Tampax on it does it? Good =)
 

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AFK protector- uhhm..ofcourse i said something before i walked away:) like "uuhmm..ok hey(Looks at celphone with watch) gotta go..see ya tommorow"

AC/DC- heheeheeh i dont know bro.....hah maybe ill tell her my friends needed me or sumthng

great advice guys..thanks!:)
 
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